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Hi all,
I need some advice from everyone. I'm in my 50's, and have been on a self-imposed excile for many years now (due more to medical issues more than anything) After the loneliness of the pandemic, I really want to connect with the gay world again, but here is the problem...I have the choice of 3 things and have no idea what to do. I've been without a car for many years now, and until now have been happy at home, but a few years ago I was diagnosed with a terminal illness that while won't kill me for awhile, I have decided on no treatment, so it basically is a death sentence. I can't decide on whether to 1) Take a vacation by myself to a circuit party or Hustlaball to be a whore again for one last fling, 2) Buy a car in anticipation of next summer's 'whoring season' and get on Grindr, or 3) Accept the finality of my age and condition, and just spend the money I would have on the first 2 on the conscipicious consumption of luxury goods. I have a comfortable, secure life, but have felt suffocated lately. Any suggestions would be appreciated, thanks!
 
I'm hesitant to give advice in situations like this but I can tell you that I have seen a number of friends who went through similar situations where they received a fatal diagnosis. Some partied until the very end. Some decided to make changes in their life to live what at the time was called "a purposeful life". Other didn't change anything and just continued going to work, having fun with friends and enjoying the time that they had.

Who ended up happier? I don't know, honestly. They made the choices that seemed right to them at the time. I would say that the ones who chose to find peace in life were more likely to pass peacefully.
 
You may not like my advice
I respect your decision that you don't want to fight to prolong your life

but having a well off- life maybe you could afford treatment and survive the illness in case that there's still a chance to fight it and reverse it

but I'd say choose number 2 , enjoy life to the fullest with your new car
 
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