Never Been Kissed

[wendigo3]

I would say just go with it. I'm in the same situation, but I think over-thinking it will only make it worse.
It might help to talk to him about it, just tell him you're new. If he's a nice guy he'll understand and be patient.

We all have to start somewhere.

 

[looseliam]

Each person has his own style of kissing. I've not met two who kiss the same.

You'll find your niche. Take his lead. You'll do fine.

 

[evil_danger]

Yeah, I've never been a fan of kissing myself, I mean me and my ex girlfriend made out all the time, but never used tongues, more kinda wet lip action I guess you could say, open mouth, just tongue action to a minimum, thats how we likes it, that was comfortable for us.

Now this straight guy I was recently snogging (really pasionatly) was compleatly different, I admited I was a bit rusty so I let him take the lead, and boy did he, I wasn't expecting his tongue in my mouth for starters. Told him that I wasn't ready the first time, needed to try again

Basically the first kiss is always going to be bizzare, even if your a pro at it, just gotta find a style that works for you.

 

[Eagle653]

Don't think about it too much, just do it. When the time comes, it will hopefully feel very natural rather than awkward.

In general, close your eyes. They'll probably close naturally, anyway.

Re the tongue--keep it in your mouth. At least initially. There's no bigger turn off for me than to have what should be a kiss turn into this thing where this fat worm is trying to force its way into my mouth. Yuck. But, that's just me. Sometimes, in the heat of passion, tongue is great--but not for the casual kiss.

Have fun! Just do what feels natural.

 

[rollex_2000]

Don't worry about it. Kissing is one of the things that comes naturally. Don't do what you sow in the movies and in porn. Let your own instincts dictate you.

 

[HOspitalboy]

Instinct. HAH! I remember my first kiss, my first girlfriend, before I knew I was gay.

So awkward, uncomfortable, just WRONG! But eventually, we did it again and again, and we were already talking about making out. It was good, it felt good, only because we practiced and practiced. And your eyes do close, it's normal I guess.

But I have never kissed a guy before, so here's hoping it's soon!

 

[Shepherd 2]

Become putty in a kisser's hands,
and in a few short lessons you will know where
you wold like to take it and become a pro in your own right.
If you want to stop at kissing, it will need to be your call
for some of us kissers will be ready to rip your clothes off
do some other stuff. So know where your own boundaries
are and do not disappoint yourself.
Shep+

 

[orton86]

When I was in your position, I was worried about that too. However, believe it or not, it will be very natural. Do not worry about it because when you are in the moment, it will be very easy. Trust me! I was in your position before!