Never bottomed before...does it live up to the hype?

[jackmoon]

Hello, I am new here. I read the FAQ about anal sex on here but I was wanting a more indepth description from some of you who have bottomed before or are very experienced with being a bottom.

I am very interested in trying it BUT just how good is it? Does it live up to the hype? I read on another website from this guy sharing his experiences with getting banged and he said it felt like he was in some kind of trance (or euphora). That definitely intrigued me. I am aware that my complete enjoyment of it wont come overnight. I am sure getting broken in could be a bit of a pain in the ass (no pun intended lol) but I am very turned on by a guy topping me and basically taking control of me.

Also, do you guys get loud when you are being fucked? Toes curl? Eyes roll back?

Please share some of your insight and experiences to me and maybe some advice . THanks

(and I will always be sure to play safe so I'll definitely have condoms!)

 

[CoolguyAT]

I to am still trying to enjoy it, doesn't help that I am not in a relationship right now because I don't bottom if I happen to hook up with someone.

Anyway, i'd say out of all the times that I actually bottomed (which is about 10 times total) I really only enjoyed it twice.

 

[lambdaboy]

I can only say how I feel when I get fucked. If the guy takes his time you are lubed and does it slow until you can take it and never oubds ass like you see in porn, its unreal.

While getting fucked I nevr get rock hard and no lie have cum without hardly touching my cock.

What has surprised me is that I have been fucked by three different str8 guys who just wanted to see what fucking ass was like because the girls they knew could not take it. were some of the most intense fucks I ever had.

I like to be on my back legs spread wide and back but not over the tops shoulders. Once in you can lick his pitts and nips and kiss.

For a start try you on top of the guy so you take what you can when you are ready.

 

[Kyanimal]

The main thing, in addition to lots of lube, etc., is to Completely relax your butt. Let it "open" like something is coming out instead of going in. (And make sure there's nothing to be coming out before hand!)

Try some fingers, or even a dildo, a little stretching, first. Take it slow in the beginning. And, yeah!, for your first time, you being on top, and riding the guy, is going to be better at giving you more control of how fast things get deep. However, any position will work if your partner is considerate and as gentle as possible about it.

Once he's in you, and picks up the tempo, it's going to feel like your taking the biggest, longest, dump of your Life! (Sorry to be so graphic!) And, if your partner is good at hitting/rubbing your prostate, you will likely see stars, possibly be more vocal than you've ever heard yourself, and likely cum gallons without touching your dick, whether it's hard, or not!!

That is IF your partner is a good, experienced, top that's also bottomed before, so he knows what he's doing, and what it feels like to You!

Good Luck! And, of course, no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[Shattereddreams]

I love it !!! I like bottoming way more than I like topping. Im serious ! When you relax and massage your ass hole with one finger in a circular motion. It will hurt less.

 

[EthanStorm]

With the right person? Yes.

Yeah if the top is good and they go slow at first and let you get used to it, in a few minutes its all good!

 

[xKMANx]

I have bottomed for my boyfriend several times. From experience you need to be with someone your comfortable with. Also try playing with dildos before bottoming. You have to test your limits! Don't just spread your legs and expect ecstasy. It could be painful, and yes it does feel like your going to shit. But play with yourself and hookup with someone who isn't rough for your first time.

 

[LaughingMan]

Bottoming can be intense and mind blowing, but you can ruin that just by one bad first time. You should probably do some ass play on yourself to see if you actually like anal stimulation. Next would be finding a guy who knows what he's doing. Good luck.

A.

 

[naquedon]

I hated bottoming at first, I found it very uncomfortable and often very painful.

On one particular 'heated' session, me and my boyfriend enjoyed LOTS of foreplay, lots of rimming and touching the anus leading to gentle fingering and eventually full blown anal sex. It does take a while at first to be completely at ease but the key is relaxation and lots of anal play, and like others said, lots of good quality lube.

After doing this a few times it becomes easier and easier but just remember not to rush into it too fast. Another thing I learned is that if you expect it to hurt, it will because you're tense. Just relax, and enjoy.

If you follow this then you will really enjoy bottoming like I do now, and I even prefer it to topping now.

Have fun and be safe

 

[Nomenclature]

Last night, I engaged in anal play for the first time in a LONG time (at least a year). I know this sounds completely hyperbolic, but that entire experience - and the orgasm at the end - was seriously the best thing i've ever felt in my life. I'm now a HUGE fan of anal play/prostate stimulation, though my first few times playing/getting fucked didn't really feel that great.


It's definitely not for everyone, but you owe it to yourself to try it. Just play it very safe, relax and don't do anything risky. Read the sticky'd threads in this section.

 

[slave4supernewty]

It took me years to like bottoming. I was 19 the first time I attempted to and I had done it a few times successfully but never really enjoyed it and sometimes just wanted it to be over. This might sound corny but I kind of took ownership of it. You really have to want to get fucked. I practiced with 2 butt plugs and then when I knew I was going to have sex, I'd lossen up with the butt plug like porn stars do. The more you do it, the better it gets IMO. Now I don't really have a problem.