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Never good enough?

what the fuck is so great about white guys? seems like gay minorities prefer whites more than whites do themselves!!!

get over the self hatred, grow a pair, be aggressive and confident,a nd you will find any guy you like.
 
asdf said:
... I never think that I'm good enough for a white guy.
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The question is, is the white guy good enough for you?

You've got self-esteem issues that you should discuss with a doctor.
 
Hi asdf! As couple of other poster have said above, you must find confidence and attractiveness in one self before you have other find you attractive.

Also, be open to date anybody of any race because you never know what who may find you attractive. I'm very open when it comes to race b/c you never know who you may wind up with in the end.
 
Just be yourself.

You must understand that different people like different things. Trying to change yourself into something that you are not normally is not a good idea. It may help you attract some guys, but if that attraction is based on something you are not it will not last. It may also deter some guys that would have been attracted to you as you are. The best way is just to be yourself. Wear nice clothes that you like. Cut your hair how you think it looks best. The best advice is don't be too selfconcious, be self confident and have fun.

Also keep in mind that different guys have different tastes. Just like you like white guys, others may have their own preferences. If you find someone attractive, approach them and see how it goes. Under you may not be their type and don't take the rejection to personal. I happen to find Asian guys very hot, but I know many guys who aren't into Asian guys. Some like short guys, some like tall; some like muscles, others like slim guys; some like twinks, some like bears. Thank God there are many different men out to please all our tastes. Believe me, there are plenty of guys that will find you sexy.
 
That you're not "good enough" for a white guy is just silly. It's your prejudices and lack of confidence talking. Consequently, you don't need to change your clothing or hair style. What you need to do is take the white guys off of the imaginary pedestal and start treating them like they were normal guys, which they are.
 
What is it with white guys? I'm white and, I agree that there are some hot white guys out there, but I prefer the darker skin tones. I don't think that a white guy is at the top of the "hotness pyramid". But that's just my opinion.

If a guy doesn't think you're attractive because you're Chinese or something shallow like that, forget him. He's not worth your time.
 
I agree with colemanshs. Why do you want to be something your not. Forget about shallow guys...they all have something that they don't like...black,white,fat,skinny,brokennose, unibrow....It doesn't matter. As you get older you find that personality is what you need. Why would you want somebody who is "hot". Cause changes are they know there hot and use there looks to get by in life. Where as us "average" blokes use our wits, humour and personality to win over the crowd! ;)
 
spreadeagle said:
Your thought patterns create your reality: if you don't think you're good enough for a white guy, then you won't be and no amount of shooshing up your hair or wearing hot clothes will make you good enough.

Your statement that you will go for any guy that has good looks shows how much value you place on appearances and, to be frank, sounds like slut talk.

Men want to have sex (and relationships) with other guys who have individual personalities and strong characters. Self confidence, good humour and interesting opinions are highly attractive; yearning and desperation are a total turn-off. No-one wants to make love to a clothes horse.
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I'm going to apologize ahead of time because I'm going to try to be nice as possible, but your post (asdf post that is) is a bit shallow....I must say

I agree with spreadeagle, why is it that you asdf worship white guys so much?? And according to your testimony, you only like guys of other races if they are "good-looking", that is very shallow in my opinions and being prejudice like that definitely doesn't help your case.

This is going to sound like such an overused and corny phrase, but if you don't start loving and liking who you are, then how can you expect others to??
 
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