Hey guys. Just found this site.
A bit about me .. I'm 49 289lbs, bi male.
I grew up in the 80s and 90s...where being gay or bi was an insult that could get you beat up. Kids are always mean. So although I was curious I didn't act on anything.
After high school... I ventured online -MIRC chat and shared pics and jo scenarios with other guys. Had one interested but when he said he was visiting my town .. I got scared and logged out.
Half a year later I moved to a college town and was planning on starting school. Same situation where I was chatting .. but got scared and would never meet.
Friends of mine set me up with a girl... And she pursued me. I had not really dated anyone .. and liked the attention... So ... We got married. Lol.
Marriage was for the most part happy. Been together 27 years and have 3 kids. 3 of the 27 we were separated... And my wife was sleeping around. For the first year of the separation I was actively trying to fix and repair the marriage. It didn't work. She bashed everything we had in our life. My parents, our kids, me. So in year 2 of the separation... J downloaded Grinder and some other apps. Still didn't just hook up. Don't know why. She was. Slept regularly with a neighbor, the neighbor and another married couple. And a woman she met at a bar.
Anyway. My mom died and my wife begged to come back and stay married. I wasn't sure... But also wasn't thinking well after moms death. Soi let her come back.
Well. She opened my bank statement .. and I had paid for premium on Grindr... One time. I'm a saver...lol anyway. She blew up. Told our kids I was chatting in a gay app. Told some of our friends. Just lost her mind. Then blamed me questioning as the reason she slept with others.
All a bunch or crap.
.anyway. now if I drive to the store to get something for her... She accuses me of sleeping with someone there. If I drive one of our kids to pick up a friend. Same accusation.
So I keep using the app and do meet up.
Oh. Lol. Well
I'm glad I found this site. I have a lot more than an Introduction.
Now ya know.
A bit about me .. I'm 49 289lbs, bi male.
I grew up in the 80s and 90s...where being gay or bi was an insult that could get you beat up. Kids are always mean. So although I was curious I didn't act on anything.
After high school... I ventured online -MIRC chat and shared pics and jo scenarios with other guys. Had one interested but when he said he was visiting my town .. I got scared and logged out.
Half a year later I moved to a college town and was planning on starting school. Same situation where I was chatting .. but got scared and would never meet.
Friends of mine set me up with a girl... And she pursued me. I had not really dated anyone .. and liked the attention... So ... We got married. Lol.
Marriage was for the most part happy. Been together 27 years and have 3 kids. 3 of the 27 we were separated... And my wife was sleeping around. For the first year of the separation I was actively trying to fix and repair the marriage. It didn't work. She bashed everything we had in our life. My parents, our kids, me. So in year 2 of the separation... J downloaded Grinder and some other apps. Still didn't just hook up. Don't know why. She was. Slept regularly with a neighbor, the neighbor and another married couple. And a woman she met at a bar.
Anyway. My mom died and my wife begged to come back and stay married. I wasn't sure... But also wasn't thinking well after moms death. Soi let her come back.
Well. She opened my bank statement .. and I had paid for premium on Grindr... One time. I'm a saver...lol anyway. She blew up. Told our kids I was chatting in a gay app. Told some of our friends. Just lost her mind. Then blamed me questioning as the reason she slept with others.
All a bunch or crap.
.anyway. now if I drive to the store to get something for her... She accuses me of sleeping with someone there. If I drive one of our kids to pick up a friend. Same accusation.
So I keep using the app and do meet up.
Oh. Lol. Well
I'm glad I found this site. I have a lot more than an Introduction.
Now ya know.
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