Not sure if you're bi or not?

[Ddavis410mx]

I am not attracted to most guys, I've never seen a guy in person and think "Wow he's hot" but I see pictures of really buff, tan, hairless guys and think they're hot. I don't want a relationship with a guy, but I have weird thoughts about giving a blowjob. Is that weird?? I've even had a dream where I started to give one but woke up. Is it wrong to hit up a local guy to play around with, but not get any further?

 

[Curiosity69]

Do whatever you want... I am kind of like you - the only men I really like are in porn and are your typical Sean Cody guys...muscly, tan, hairy butt and legs, smooth back and abs. I've noticed a guy in real life once in my 20 years and thought he was hot, other than that I dislike males, and find myself checking out women 20 times a day...

I've come to accept my bicuriosity in the last year and don't really mind it. It isn't a bad thing to me any more, after all...it's twice as easy to find porn that I like if I like guys as well. As far as trying it out in real life, I'm not searching at all, and I only ever find myself checking out girls, but I think if the opportunity arose I'd try it out for fun. I mean no one else has to find out right? If you like it, continue and maybe come out as bi, and if you don't like it then you never have to do it again, and no one will know.

 

[Ganoderma]

hi Ddavis410mx,

Welcome to JUB, and feel free to ask all kind of questions you would like to ask.

Towards my opinion (I am gay), it is not wrong and/or weird at all to give a blowjob to another guy, and its also not wrong and/or weird to find a local guy for fun (play with him) without anything else.

Towards my opinion, this also does not mean that you must label yourself as bi (or curious). Names like 'bi' or 'curious' or 'bi-curious' are just labels, and there are no fixed rules that you must use such labels to describe yourself.

So also don't feel that you are weird, as alot of guys have this kind of feelings. I agree with Curiosity69. Try it out and experience how you feel afterwards. Be also aware that guys are not similar to each other, but that's also the case for girls.

Just be sure to play safe with any guy you meet. Take your time, and good luck.

Best wishes.

 

[Ddavis410mx]

I really doubt I'd ever do anything with a guy in real life, I like chicks to much. Guys gross me out, but it's weird sometimes you think about it but when your in everyday life you'll think "WTF was I thinking!?" but that night you'll get that thought again. it's annoying.

 

[Okasaa]

I think I fall in a simillar bucket. I watch gay porn exclusively. Straight porn doen't do anything for me. In real life I am happily married to a woman and having a kid soon. Even before getting married, I only seeked women. I tried to expirement in college by going to gay bars, but realized that's not for me. Even tried to expirement with a gay friend still nothing. I have finally realized that I am straight with bi-curious tendencies. Before reading other posts over here, I thought I was alone who feels this way.

 

[CuriousB]

I'm the same way. Id like to experiment with a guy but I don't trust Craigslist and I don't have the balls to go to a Gay bar by myself and besides I wouldn't want my friends knowing I went to a gay bar. But still the fact of being with another guy turns me on. Any Houston bros wanna go out? Lol

 

[LikesDudes2]

A lot of men have bisexual thoughts, but don't admit it because it's considered taboo in our Puritanical culture. Fact is, probably only a good 1/3 of men are strictly Kinsey 0's (100% straight). I think things are slowly changing though: bromance and the like .

 

[PoppaJunk]

I'm sort of the same way. Not attracted to guys at all and dont want a relationship with a guy. I'm exclusivly attraced to the womenz, however I like gay/Bi porn and I like having a cock in my hand. I also like the idea of getting and giving a blowjob. Guess for me it's all about the getting off with a guy, not so much anything else.

 

[sortastraight]

I'm very similar. It started when i was young i only got turned on by black guys fucking white girls then gradually bisexual now gay but only interracial. I would never walk by a guy in th street and check him out or have a relationship with another man but the bottom line is i find big cocks attractive and no matter what the guy looks like i wanna suck on them. I felt like this for years and just recently th opportunity arose with my friends dad and as guys with large dicks usually do he pulled it too showing it off. Long story short i sucked him off and he was far from being gay (married for 20 years) he would'nt let me get my dick out and as soon as he shot his load he went to bed and left me to clean up th mess on the couch. I enjoyed it at the time but after i came wen he went to bed i felt dirty and as if i should'nt have done it! I'v done it 1 time since with a male escort and same thing happened when i shot my load! I could not get out fast enough. I am never going to try anal giving or recieving but the thought of pleasuring a hung guy and making him cum turns me on alot more than licking pussy Does anyone else feel like this?

 

[jubdown5]

I hope times are changing because there are several guys I wanna mess around with! Too many thoughts in my head.

 

[Seventh Ghost]

I have the same problem as the OP. I do not find most males attractive. Of course i can acknowledge a handsome guy, but 90% of the time there is no sexual attraction. However there a few guys in porn that i really dig. Mostly "twinkish" guys like Tommy Anders and Jesse Starr. I'm attracted to maybe a handful of guys other then that. I really don't know if i could even be considered "bi".