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Odd habit or compulsion of complimenting

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Ally1980

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Hey there guys!

I kinda have an odd habit I wanted to talk about.

Whenever I see a good looking guy on the streets or somewhere, I really want to tell him that he is a good looking or cute guy, unknown about his sexuality off course. I have the compulsion to do this even if there are chances that it might trigger a negative reaction at the other side. In such a case it is quite hard to restarin myself.

For instance, today when I went shopping, I saw this cute guy working in the fashion store. I was looking some shirts and gave him a 5 second fixed glance. He then asked, you need any help so I asked for some help and stuff. In the end I took a shirt and thanked him for his help and went to the cash register to pay for it.

Again this odd compulsion arose, so after paying I went up to the guy passed him and then whispered, ´hey, you are a very cute guy`, his reaction was like thank you very much. And I left.

In this case it ended well, just like other times when I started a quick conversation with guys on the streets and ended it with You are cute, just to say it.
But I know now that I should not apply it in the gym!

Is this a familiar problem or someting rare?
 
Its not a bad thing but everything has a limit and a place & time for it. So in a 'straight' setting some guys may feel uneasy or some may get all weird around you. Don't get beat up! lol
 
@ iiiset: I really needed the shirt.

@Latincoffee: thats exactly what my rational reasoning is. Talking about getting beat up, it almost happend in the gym in the US. But if you think of it, standing next to the guy with your dick almost in his face, doesnt go well (I was young and a very big noob on this stuff). But i also had some positive experiences in the gym in US.
 
>>>But i also had some positive experiences in the gym in US.

Is this why you're doing it? You're hoping it'll lead somewhere? In that case, I don't see what the big deal is. You're, in essence, hitting on attractive guys and hoping they'll give off some sort of hint that something might happen. You may do it more than most people, but you're probably getting laid more than most people, too.

Lex
 
@ lex: you could define this habit the way you define it. The idea is there unconciously that i want the action. however there is no correlation between hitting on guys and getting laid more in my life
 
It is more a thing of getting to know the hot str8 guys and keep in touch with them. Like the nice tirkish guy at a take away yesterday. He started a conversation with me out fo nothing. Kinda liked that.

If the guy is gay then things may go further.
 
Ally, the world needs more people like you, and more guys that know how to take a compliment. However, it is definitely out of the ordinary, at least in my part of the world, so take care.
 
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