Odd situation

[n3wk1d92]

I recently found out im bi and so have begun to notice guy friends differently. here is my problem I have a REALLY hot straight guy friend who doesnt know im bi. well I want to see him nude cause I've seen him in underwear and his bulge is VERY impressive. how do i get him nude?

 

[apsco17]

Hey buddy! I don't know how old you are but, be carefull whit this situation.
We have all been there once or more.
If the guy is str8 according to you, let him go. Do not push anyting except if he makes a clear move on you.

Usually fantasing on guys who are str8 if you are bi or gay is a hiway with a dead end

 

[n3wk1d92]

I almost 19 and I was afraid I was going to get that But i was being hopeful. I can be a little niave its gotten me really hurt in the past.

 

[Seasoned]

If you are not living together or do activities where you would change clothes together it's not going to happen. It's also a violation of his privacy as he is not likely to strip off in front of someone who is just curious about his package. As the song says, "we can't always get want we want."

You'll have to move on and find sexual excitement with willing partners.

Good luck on your journey. A lot of us have been where you are now so don't feel guilty, but also don't be obsessed.

 

[hylas]

dont make any schemes to see him naked or anything. thats just creepy and pathetic. dont obsess over him either, cause its not going anywhere. enjoy your fantasies, but remember that its just that - a fantasy.

 

[sexxxivee]

Try and get him to sleep over one night,get him drunk,and try and have a good look,if he's really out, cop a feel and if there's any stirrings have a nice slow suck on it..

So you're basically advising this person to rape a passed out straight guy? I hope you're joking/being sarcastic...

OP, I agree with the other posters saying it's a dead end. Don't take advantage of your friends.

 

[dhchitown1984]

n3wk1d92.... welcome to the world of having a less-common sexual orientation.

You're young, you're 19... as someone who's been down this road before, let me share one piece of advice with you:

WHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT HIT ON YOUR STRAIGHT GUY FRIENDS. DO NOT TRY TO CON THEM INTO COMPROMISING SITUATIONS. DO NOT RISK YOUR FRIENDSHIPS WITH PEOPLE WHO GENUINELY CARE ABOUT YOU.

It totally sucks - every bi or gay guy on this planet has had the super hot straight guy friend. We all secretly want to do very dirty and inappropriate things with them. But the fact of the matter is, they are not interested. They're not interested because there is something wrong with you, they're not interested because their not into guys.

Find a cute guy who's into guys, and let him be the center of your world for a little bit. It'll distract you from thinking the way you do about your straight friend.

At the end of the day, if you try to make a move, or do something creepy (like get him drunk and feel him up), you ARE going to SEVERELY jeopardize the friendship. There is a good chance you'll lose the friendship, and then you're going to regret it the rest of your life.

Keep coming back here and use as a resource for your questions, concerns, and tell us all the juicy details. We can't wait to help you and give you great advice.

 

[KaraBulut]

Sometimes in cases like this, it helps to switch genders to gain perspective on things.

If you were a straight guy and you had a female friend and you were to ask how you could exploit your friendship with this girl to get her naked, we would tell you that it is disrespectful and borders on sexual predation to do so.

It's no different with your straight male friends. Don't exploit your friendship with a guy to pursue your own agenda. Friends don't do that.

 

[n3wk1d92]

Thank you all for your advice I wont try to trick or conspire to get him nude. I will take to heart all your good advice in not conning him in any way. Thank you very much.