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Everything's worth a try.

I have found out that what my friends think might be perfect for me, doesn't always hold true.

But I have met some nice friends as a result.
 
I'm sure your friend has your best interests at heart. Being set up isn't easy but try to go into it with an open mind. You never know what might come of it

Best of luck and let us know how it goes
 
Yup. The freedom of thought enjoys constitutional protection.

On a more serious note, you want to keep all your options open. No harm in meeting up the dude and checking the vibe. If you connect, that's fine. If you don't?

You tried. That's what matters.

SC
 
I've thought the same but i'm still going to meet some gay friends of my straight relative this sat as i'ts allways good to meet people just in case.
 
Personally I would never allow myself to be set up like that. Not to be a downer, but if I haven't met the person on my own accord, I just think it's a no. Plus that's way too awkward for someone like me, mega-prude, and afraid of any relationship.
 
im the type of guy that i would go on a date with anyone who wants to date me.

people, especially teens, put such pressure on dating.

Its harmless fun, not commitment! fuck anyone who tells you otherwise.

:D
 
Hey Systematic,

Dont put so much pressure on yourself mate! Not everyone you meet or date will be a partner... you dont have to do anything with anyone... especially someone who isnt right for you.

You are an important, special and individual guy. You are unique. And you deserve someone who recognizes that no matter how you meet them.

Just go along, take no expectations, have some fun, have a great time and enjoy the fact that you can just turn and walk away... thats your right.

Only when you meet Mr Right do you need to worry about things going horribly wrong... and this guy hasn't turned into him yet.

Perhaps try a date with your friend as well so you have an out if things go wrong, but in the meantime Systematic, the old saying nothing ventured nothing gained comes to mind. Who knows this guy could be an ass... or he could be the love of your life. Just remember what you are worth and that no one has to be the one for you unless you want it that way.
 
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