Ambition92
On the Prowl
Hello all! In my previous post I simply introduced myself and my current situation regarding my sexuality. I didn't want to be one of those people that posts a thread every week, and this will only be my second, but I'd really like to get some perspective on my "new" situation. This of course seemed like the best place to get that perspective.
I frequent various gay dating/hookup sites (A4A, Manhunt, etc…) much to my dissatisfaction seeing as I've never in fact been with or "hooked up" with a guy. With that said, I have met some really cool people in the last couple of years but never actually met up in person with them (mainly due to where we're located and being to far away from each other). Anyhow, this brings me to last night. I looked at a few profiles on one of these sites and one in particular caught my eye. The profile was vague but based on his stats he seemed to fit with what I was looking for in a guy. I didn't expect much, but low and behold I got a message back!
The conversation was pretty basic for an hour or so before I asked if he had Skype, to which he did. Once we got on Skype we continued to chat via text and even exchanged face photos of each other. We both liked what we saw and continued chatting, which is when I found out that he's only here until after New Years because he's house sitting for a friend. It struck me as odd that he'd be away from his family over the holidays, but it turns out he's actually from out of the country and studying in a different part of Canada. I voiced my sadness because it seemed like we were hitting it off and then he suggested that we meet up in the next week. I was thinking the same thing so I suggested we meet up this coming Friday. We plan on meeting at a mall that he is close to.
Now, as I've already stated I'm so new to this. I've never met up with a guy before and for all I know it could just be hanging out and that's where it end. The thing is, this guy is gorgeous. Shortly after we made plans I asked if we could video chat. We did and he was even more handsome than his picture let on! He is exactly my type. I'm not particularly a "hottie". I've been told I look handsome and am charming, but only from middle aged women I work with and a few girls I fooled around with before. I'm also kind of chubby. I even told him that in case he wanted to back out and he said he didn't mind because he's not perfect either.
I just keep thinking "Why the hell is he interested in me?". If you read my previous post, you could probably tell that I'm a bit over-analytical and I tend to jump to conclusions instead of seeing how things unfold. In the back of my mind I keep thinking this won't happen and if it does, maybe he's not what he seems. I just really don't know what to think anymore. Which is why I'm here. What do all of you think about this? If it works out and we meet, should I treat is as a date?
If I didn't clarify anything, just ask and I'll try my best to explain. Thanks for reading guys, hopefully I don't come across as cray in this post.
I frequent various gay dating/hookup sites (A4A, Manhunt, etc…) much to my dissatisfaction seeing as I've never in fact been with or "hooked up" with a guy. With that said, I have met some really cool people in the last couple of years but never actually met up in person with them (mainly due to where we're located and being to far away from each other). Anyhow, this brings me to last night. I looked at a few profiles on one of these sites and one in particular caught my eye. The profile was vague but based on his stats he seemed to fit with what I was looking for in a guy. I didn't expect much, but low and behold I got a message back!
The conversation was pretty basic for an hour or so before I asked if he had Skype, to which he did. Once we got on Skype we continued to chat via text and even exchanged face photos of each other. We both liked what we saw and continued chatting, which is when I found out that he's only here until after New Years because he's house sitting for a friend. It struck me as odd that he'd be away from his family over the holidays, but it turns out he's actually from out of the country and studying in a different part of Canada. I voiced my sadness because it seemed like we were hitting it off and then he suggested that we meet up in the next week. I was thinking the same thing so I suggested we meet up this coming Friday. We plan on meeting at a mall that he is close to.
Now, as I've already stated I'm so new to this. I've never met up with a guy before and for all I know it could just be hanging out and that's where it end. The thing is, this guy is gorgeous. Shortly after we made plans I asked if we could video chat. We did and he was even more handsome than his picture let on! He is exactly my type. I'm not particularly a "hottie". I've been told I look handsome and am charming, but only from middle aged women I work with and a few girls I fooled around with before. I'm also kind of chubby. I even told him that in case he wanted to back out and he said he didn't mind because he's not perfect either.
I just keep thinking "Why the hell is he interested in me?". If you read my previous post, you could probably tell that I'm a bit over-analytical and I tend to jump to conclusions instead of seeing how things unfold. In the back of my mind I keep thinking this won't happen and if it does, maybe he's not what he seems. I just really don't know what to think anymore. Which is why I'm here. What do all of you think about this? If it works out and we meet, should I treat is as a date?
If I didn't clarify anything, just ask and I'll try my best to explain. Thanks for reading guys, hopefully I don't come across as cray in this post.
Maybe he's in the same boat as I am. I can overlook the not so perfect body as long as I like how he looks and how we connnect 
