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the mods suggested I post here - so here goes.

I am not some youngun. Was married for almost 30 years and have 3 adult children. Just now, I am coming to terms with my sexuality - perhaps acceptance is a better word.

Obviously, I am deep in the closet and not sure I will ever fully emerge. I also realize that the place I am in right now is a place that I have created. Coming out when I was younger was not as acceptable as it is now, so I tried to live a heterosexual life. Must have been fairly successful as my ex and I did share a sexual life together.

To add to this, I have never had real sexual experience with another man and truly desire to do so, just not sure how to go about it.

Thanks for listening.
 
Yours is not an unusual story. There are many guys that I have known over the years whose story has the same basic outline. And there are several here at JUB who have very similar stories.

You'll start seeing posts from some of those guys but before we start, what is it that you need from your forum post- just to talk, just to tell someone your story or are you in need of advice from the members here?
 
Sounds like me. Married with a kid. Always been "straight" but I've always checked out guys, just lately came to terms with everything in a lot of ways. You can message me if you want.
 
KaraBulut said:
Yours is not an unusual story. There are many guys that I have known over the years whose story has the same basic outline. And there are several here at JUB who have very similar stories.

You'll start seeing posts from some of those guys but before we start, what is it that you need from your forum post- just to talk, just to tell someone your story or are you in need of advice from the members here?
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Probably a bit of all 3.

thanks
 
Hi welcome to JUB, I was in your shoes I am 43 I came out at 38 after being married and having kids, it is possible. I came out to my ex and my friends a year after divorcing and I just came out to my twin 13 year old boys this summer. I have not had one bad reaction to my coming out yet!! For myself it took me about a year to get used to the new me and be truly comfortable.

There are a few of us here on JUB, I know for myself it was a relief to see there were other guys in my situation, at first I thought I was some kind of freak but I am not. I dug up an old thread for you to take a look at, I know it helped me and hopefully it will help you!! I am always willing to help guys who are in my situation so if there is anything I can do for you or anything you would like to ask please fell free to ask away you could even PM me if you would like!!
 
motodude87 said:
Sounds like me. Married with a kid. Always been "straight" but I've always checked out guys, just lately came to terms with everything in a lot of ways. You can message me if you want.
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Hey Dude,
thanks for the support. It is good to know that I am not alone in this.
 
No prob, as Kara said, there's a lot of us floating around. You'd be surprised. I know I was.
 
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