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So I’m a 20 yr old straight guy who’s never done anything with a guy, but recently I might have had a guy blow me.

I have a friend who’s gay who is 35 and he has known me and my friends for a while, and always drank and smoked with us. A little while ago a bunch of us were drinking and smoking with him, and then the rest of the people called it a night early and I stayed behind with the older guy. We went back to his room to smoke, the two of us. We were watching TV on two separate twin beds, and I fell asleep. I woke up about an hour and a half later because I thought I felt something weird around my crotch. I sat up, disoriented, and looked at him; he was sitting on the other bed with a smile. I then said I have to go and got up, and when I did, I noticed that my belt was undone and pants unzipped, with my semi-hard dick hanging out through my boxers.

I looked at him and he just stayed quiet, so I said ‘bye again like I didn’t see anything. He asked me if I wanted to wash up first and I was confused by the question and I said no. I then left and he asked if we were cool, and I said yea, trying not to confront the situation. I trusted him before not to do anything and thought he wouldn’t try it, and now I’m unsure if I should be mad. I went home feeling very horny like I had just jerked off and stopped right before cuming, and wondered if he blew me or not.

This is all true, and I am confused as to whether I should be turned on or not
 
You feel as you feel and that's the best guidance of all and so only you know if you feel turned on or not but if you do or if you don't, it is something you need to deal with. Reading what you have written it seems the guy took advantage of you but can you sleep through a blow job? ... unless drugged up or well drunk so not sure about that! Why did he leave the evidence so obvious that he'd done what he did if he had not felt in some way you were okay with it? If he had no such knowledge, he was taking one hell of a chance and abusing your friendship and trust with him. I have more straight male friends than Gay and never would think of abusing their friendship and trust but that is me but either way .. speak with him directly about how you feel and be honest with him and more significantly with yourself!
All the very best to you Howard,
Zanadu
 
Yea, you probably should've asked him what was going on. Shame on him if he took advantage of you. That's not right.
 
isn't that basically rape? i'm aware it's very serious to accuse someone of it but that's what it almost sounds like...
 
He sexually molested you, if not borderline rape. I am sorry that your friend did this to you. It is up to you if you want him to forgive him for this terrible action he did. You have every right to cut off the friendship.
 
He did molest you. That is not okay. My sister was in the same situation as you. And I'll tell you what I told her. It's your choice to take action against him or not. But I would think about it. If you choice not to take action. If I was you, I told talk to him about it. And tell him that what he did wasn't close to okay.
 
Now that it's a thing of the past and your mind is more clear, you can choose to approach him about it if it is still bothering you. If you are still confused, maybe subconsciously you were ok with it to some degree? I would talk to him about it if you are planning on drinking and smoking with him, and there is a chance that you might fall asleep again.
 
I would certainly talk to him about it, and then think about things a bit.
You don't mention how much you drank and smoke. Sleep is not passing out from being wasted. Also there is that time when you are wasted and think you are passed out or sleeping but very much awake and just don't remember (black out) doing things and talking in limbo.
Its possible to be in blacked out, passed out then come out of it and have belts or pants down because of your own actions.
From your description it sounds suspicious for some kind of foul play from this guy, but then he ask you if you are fine or everything is ok between you indicating that perhaps maybe you were awake and talking. If he was under the impression you were zonked out why would he ask you this unless their was discussion perhaps before hand? How stoned and drunk was he as well?
You indicate he is your friend and you do this often but then you name the post after age. Would you feel any different if the friend had been 23 instead of 35 and you came back around in the same place under the same circumstances? It certainly could go down that way too.
 
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