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Older / Younger Realtionship?

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Alright....here's the long and short scenario...I met a guy. He's 19. I'm 31. HUGE age gap and at 2 different places in life, of course. So....my questions: Is it appropriate? Is it a case by case thing where if you both get along and want it, then it can work? Will it start off fine but eventually deteriorate as things move along? Are these questions that I should even be asking? I just wanted to hear some sound feedback from the folks on here. Any and all are welcome! Thanks!! :-)
 
I think it can work. My partner is about 7 yrs older then me and we met while we were in 2 different places in life. 4 yrs later we live together and are still going strong. Now mind you that I didn't accept his invite until we dated 3.5 yrs.... I wanted to make sure I finished school 1st.

each person is different. Just be sure that you both are on the same page.
 
the age diff is not a big deal unless you let it.

I met my b/f when I was 18 and he was 24. But we have now been together for 25yrs come this aug-09.

so it's what you make of it.
 
I think it really depends on the two guys involved in the relationship. A lot will depend on if he is a mature 19 or not. A lot will depend on your ability to recognize that he will want to experience many things that you have already moved on from. In short, I think it's very possible for it to work, but understand it may require a little more give and take than most relationships.
 
Thank you guys for the responses so far! I have to admit that it is encouraging to see some positive thoughts about it, but for some reason I still have this hangup about it. When I am with him, I never feel it, but when I think about it when he isn't here I really start to question. Perhaps it's just one of those social stigmas that society has placed on such circumstances. But who knows...maybe I should quit questioning it and go with it, right? :) He's a really sweet guy and is extremely smart and we totally click. So I dunno...please keep the thoughts and comments coming!
 
I was 36 and my partner was 28 when we met. This year we will celebrate our 26th anniversary.
 
Age should not be a factor; the key is your feelings for him and he for you.

My boyfriend is just turning 27...I'm 52. I've always dated younger guys since I came out four years ago. I'm told I look 35, have the sex drive of an 18 year old and stamina of a 16 year old!

We've never had a problem other than some guys have expressed that they are envious of me....the boyfriend is beautiful and we've posted pictures on here before.....
 
Age is just a number! If you think there is something there then just go for it and give it all youve got!!!!
 
Yo, my bf and I are 12 years apart, too. We were very much apprehensive before we started dating. A few weeks into it it stopped becoming a problem. make of it what you can.
 
Hey age does not matter - at all. What really matters is that you are both into each other - I'm just off a relationship with a 19 year old (I'm 32) and we broke up not because of age - because we wanted different things from each other. Stay on the same page and the issue of age just fades away.
 
why not? As long as you're both consenting adults, don't be afraid to act on your true feelings. :)
 
Age is a number, but maturity and where you are at in life does matter. If you feel like you are at "2 different places" in life, then that may be a warning sign. Compatibility is important. Does this guy want to pursue various things in life that are different from what you've already settled to? Keep this in mind.
 
meh

My first partner was 10 years older and my partner of 26 years is 8 years older. My parents were 10 years apart and my grandparents as well.
 
Age is more of a state of mind when it comes to a relationship. My partner and I have a 16 year age difference and things are awesome. We have a lot in common but respect each others ages and interest.

My suggest will be the same even if you guys were the same age. Take things slowly, enjoy getting to know each other, use your different likes and interest to create a stronger and more loving relationship. As with all relationships, problems may develop but we found it is more fun working through them.
 
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