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OMG!! What Did I Do!?

Leidian

Leidian

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Oh man!!! I got a little tipsy tonight and I told one of my friends from school about my boyfriend from when I went abroad. It was the first person I have ever told that I dated/had sex with a guy. I know I'll be fine and it's step in the right direction, but OMG i can't believe I finally told someone about it. I just needed to tell someone else. Thanks for listening!!!
 
is it really that difficult for a (chinese) gay guy (sorry about the misunderstanding of your race before i checked your profile. but anyway seems that you ever been to china before?) to come out or just to tell that he had sex with guys to others?! Being as a chinese gay guy that i didnt really find that difficult to come out to my parents and friends at all.. and yes when someone comes up to ask me if i would get married a girl in future or something i will just tell them that i like girls as friends only because that i am into guys! :)
 
Well done, its a good first step, now keep going!
 
ha ha ha ha...well..yes...and actually i came out cuz i didnt want to hide the truth from my parents which made me feel quite obscured to them...
 
he he he..well...i was lucky cuz my parents just accepted it quite smoothly which was really unexpected to me..cuz i really thought that they would just be quite...annoyed or something...he he he...
 
Haha...sorry for the confusion I may have caused considering my username and sig. I have a really big appreciation for the Chinese culture, though I am not Chinese myself.

Thanks, as well, for the encouraging words. I am surprised anybody even responded, not exactly a "hot topic".....not to mention I was still a little tips when I made the thread.

Congrats Jade on coming out. Though I have lived in China before, I certainly haven't met all Chinese people (haha), but the ones I did meet didn't look favorably on homosexuality. I respect you for coming out, especially since most people I know are accepting and I haven't.
 
Congratulations, Leidian--- and the world did not come to an end! ..| I'm very happy for you!! (*8*)
 
I had a similar situation happen last weekend...

A ton of people from my program (at school) were out at the bar and I decided to meet up with them but not before having a couple drinks with a gay guy that I'd just met. We were at his house beforehand then decided to catch a cab down to the bar where so many of my friends were at, mostly intoxicated I might add. Well, I got to the point where I don't remember much of the night except that I was groping my new gay friend on the dance floor and ummm... well, that's all I remember! I had one friend ask me the next day who I was with at the bar and I answered "a friend." I don't know if I told any of my friends anything or not because to them I am straight (I'm not out to anyone... except for everyone reading this!).
 
good for you bro. hope i can tell someone else one day besides the guy im fucking and my bro. i feel so trapped. but its always nice when SOMEONE knows. so kudos :) this is the beginning of your personal acceptance.
 
Leidian said:
Haha...sorry for the confusion I may have caused considering my username and sig. I have a really big appreciation for the Chinese culture, though I am not Chinese myself.

Thanks, as well, for the encouraging words. I am surprised anybody even responded, not exactly a "hot topic".....not to mention I was still a little tips when I made the thread.

Congrats Jade on coming out. Though I have lived in China before, I certainly haven't met all Chinese people (haha), but the ones I did meet didn't look favorably on homosexuality. I respect you for coming out, especially since most people I know are accepting and I haven't.
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he he he..thanks and yeah...you are now really brave to have your first step out! i definitely understand how difficult for doing it for yourself. but yeah, bro, you are brave and we all are proud of you!:) he he he..well.. in nowadays in china that more and more people could accept homosexuals especially those younger generations!:) so..i am sure that one day there will even be the gay pride or something like that in Beijing or Shanghai~:)
 
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