On gay vs. straight

[slnattak]

I am sooo fucking sick and tired of this gay man vs. straight thing.

Either you find a guy or situation hot or arousing or you don't. It's all in the details.

Gay and straight both are such abstract general labels. They're uterally MEANINGLESS and really do NOTHING for ANYBODY if you think about it. If you always find 'gay men' hotter you are an overly politically correct retard who tries to overpoliticize homosexuality, if you always find 'straight men' hotter and constantly put down gay men as a whole, than you ARE actually being a self-hating homo and it's annoying as fuck.

My sexuality is well this:

1. I like to eat a guy's ass
2. I like to finger girls, I like to watch guys finger girls
3. I like to get fucked by guys and fuck guys (I'm not into fucking women however)
4. I like watching guys tit fuck girls in cargo pants
5. I like to be dominant towards women and men
6. I like men to dominate me
7. I pretty much can get into all kinds of oral
8. I like straight porn much better than gay porn usually
9. I'm more romantically interested in men

It's all about detailed specific acts I enjoy. Putting it all together I am more generally gay than straight though, I guess you could say. But labelling it is just weird and unnecessary 9 times out of 10.

 

[slnattak]

All these silly little comments about straight men are retarded. If you have sexual chemistry with somebody you have sexual chemistry with somebody- why the hell are you labelling it? Do you know that's probably the quickest way to kill the mood.

All you guys well most of you sound like insecure virgins no offense that couldn't get laid by ANYthing real, because you're so goddamn fucking abstract and general when life is ALL about the details and concrete things.

There is no such thing as an abstract. it's all in the psychological fucked up human brain.

STraight and gay and bi don't even exist. You have to LIVE to find out what you're really into.

Saying you're 'teased by a straight' man makes me so angry. It would be like 'I'm in love with a gay man' Or how other "gay" men try to act weird and overidealize other men they find "gay." No wonder you can't find anybody in reality that would actually enjoy you, you have to whine and rant about your stupid fetishes on online message boards.

Ooooh it's just so fucking STUPID. Grow up people.

 

[blackbeltninja]

^Gosh this should be interesting.

Personally I'd prefer a general label for myself so I have a benchmark to start with. If I label myself as "I have no clue" I wouldn't know where to start.

However, if I label myself as gay, then I do know where to start. Over time, when I live and experience things and want to experience other things I might change my label, but having a fairly concrete starting point in the form of a label is a useful exercise.

Can I ask what brought this litte rant on?

Oh, and .

-d-

 

[Gomaki]

This is pretty interesting. I was in my Human Sexuality class and the prof had the campus GLBT organization come. They spent almost 2 hours talking about that damn acronym. And apparently it's now GLBTQTTIQA... I think there is more.

Anyways their talk was WAAAAAAY too political. I was thinking that no one gives a shit what you decide to label yourself... you can call yourself gay or bi or queer or whatever, but no one cares. People only care who you are doing it with in the end, so in my humble opinion, that enormous acronym is really a moot point.

I mainly like guys, but I could be persuaded into pussy if the situation was right And I think watching a guy eat pussy is totally hot!

 

[kingkhan]

All I know is there are many things that turn me on. I can't help but stare at women sometimes but, I also can't stop fantasizing about the fun I have with my buddy. I love sucking his cock. It's just whatever those who turn me on are those who turn me on it's really simple its not my whole identity as a person.

 

[MisterMajestic]

"I am sooo fucking sick and tired of this gay man vs. straight thing."

But who starts it?....LOL....None of my Straight friends bash Gays or even talk about Gay situations and none of my Gay friends do it...All of them have their opinions but it's rare that "Straight" & "Gay" conversations ever linger on past "So where we going for dinner, and who's paying?"

In my world and circle-of-friends there is no Gay Vs Straight. Besides everything is based on who I decide to be a part of my life. I LOVE having that kind of control. I don't even know what a Gay VS Straight argument is since I don't experience it. Most of the people I know have GREATER problems than sexual orientation...

 

[blackbeltninja]

Sounds like an existential crisis saturated in booze and wrapped in rejection eh?

Indeed.

I haven't noticed much change in the 3 years I've been here; but he hates it and sticks around for 5 years and still doesn't delete his account?

Something odd going on here...

-d-

 

[Caaake]

Thank You For Your Post seriously.. The world needs to get this through (many) of their narrowminded heads.