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One nightstands

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When reading other threads, I have noticed that there is a divided view on one nightstands (or hookups) here at JUB. I personally just dont feel comfortable doing something that personal with someone I don't know regardless of how horny I may be at the time. But for those of you that do--are they usually planned or occur spontaneously?
 
I agree with you. I don't think I could either. I want to know someone before I become sexual. To me, that's very personal and I can't just "give it up" in one night of knowing someone. Maybe that is why my sex life is not so great! !oops!
 
Hey i have two nightstands whats wrong with that its very semetrical in my room that way :-p
 
One nightstand is rather awkward in the bedroom, for a better effect and for the flow of the room, two on either side of the bed is preferable.


But on a more serious note,

I hate one night stands.

I've engaged in them, yes, but only to a limited extent and not to mention that what happened never involved going fully all the way. If and when that happens, it will be with a steady boyfriend, not someone I've just met.

I think the problem comes with the expectation. I was "suckered" into two with the potential of something more happening, only to never really hear from either again.
 
^ I know the awkwardness of which you speak. That's why I try to go to the guy house so I can scoot out of there when I'm ready. I hate having to ask someone to leave because I'm ready to sleep.
 
I think it is very bad taste when someone ask what is obviously a very serious question to them ; only to get smart ass answeres from the JUBers here .. Shame on YOU !
With that said .. I do not have one nighters ... I've got more respect for myself and my health . Condoms have been known to break, leak, and come off . I definately do not want an STD etc .. So; I won't be doing "IT" with anyone but my right hand until I get into a meaningful relationship ....
 
Hey, who am I to lie about it?

We "ALL" have been there and done it, and lived to tell about it till the next time!!!

Yeah, having a big ole sweet date--thing with a nice guy is certainly the way to go; but face it, we get horny and have needs and just the ole five fingers of the hand gets a little old after awhile......

........But, please always practice safer sex!(*8*) (*8*) :kiss: :kiss:
 
mmmmmmm well thats a hard topic for me, i have had them b4, 1 nite stands, but now, that a disease has hit home for me, i dont think i can have one without knowing more about that person. i just dont have it in me anymore, like is short enough the way it is, i dont want to shorten it.
 
I hope i never have a one night stand , if i am going to have sex is personal and private , i dont want to just root some random guy in a bar
 
For me, there seems to be no middle ground...

Either it's incredible, 'oh, my god, for a second the room disappeared'
mind-blowing fucking, or it's lame as hell and, 'find your shorts and get
the Hell out of here before the sun comes up...'

Either way, it leaves you kind of empty.

Being guys, we can't imagine what things will be like until we blow our
loads...and usually...it's not all that pretty.

One night stands are like lines of some wonderful drug... It's great while
it lasts....but then, not so good....

Until we get horny again.

Kinda depressing.

Joshy
 
Done them and don't mind them at all. Some were good, others weren't, but learned to recognize the ones I wouldn't want to be with. I guess it is just one of those personal things. There are times when I don't mind sex just for sex. But then again, there are a lot of preconceived ideas and learned things taken for granted as to how relationships are supposed to be, instead of letting it find itself in expression. That could be a future thread though.
 
Yes I've done them in the past and it was fun. I'd like now to find something with a bit more meaning. I have turned down numerous people on Gayday but have also met a few, of those I have had sex with 3 and became good friends with one I didn't have sex with. I still keep in contact with him and 2 of those I had sex with. I think I'll stop this here, I waffeling.
 
I'm still having trouble with this topic. If you'll only have sex with a "serious boyfriend", how the hell did he become your boyfriend in the first place? Are you telling me there are guys out there who will let you say "you're my boyfriend" before you've even had sex?

There's nothing wrong with getting to know somebody first, but no guy is going to wait around for weeks while you make up your mind.

And anyway, how do you know in advance a "one night stand" is only going to be for one night? Do you sign a contract or something? What happens if you both like each other and want to do it again, do you have to renegotiate?

And if you don't want a one night stand, what happens if one of you doesn't want to do it again? Can't that happen even with a "serious boyfriend"?

Maybe I'm just being a little pedantic as usual.
 
You boys need nightstands...I have picked up so many in my day that they line the walls...I have even stacked them on top of one another...when they are cheap and plentiful.
 
I agree with you. I'd have to know the person.

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When reading other threads, I have noticed that there is a divided view on one nightstands (or hookups) here at JUB. I personally just dont feel comfortable doing something that personal with someone I don't know regardless of how horny I may be at the time. But for those of you that do--are they usually planned or occur spontaneously?
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So, just so that we all understand...we're talking about one-night-stands as opposed to one nightstand, right??? :badgrin:
 
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