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Attention Aussie Guys

Hey guys i've finally decided to start dating in the gay world and thought maybe online dating would be a great way to start because you can express yourself much better..........I dont know what i'm really looking for but obviously i want sex eventually but i am not looking for just plain blow and go situations!!!

So i live in Sydney, Australia and i've gone to site like rsvp.com.au, gaydar.com.au and gay.com but no one really seems interested. I do have a profile pic, i can easily talk to anybody about anything.... but no one seems to really connect....
so basically are there any other sites [ not hook up ones ] that Aussie Guys can recommend, or any other sites around the world to make friends too

ps when i talk to guys i try to make it honest, upbeat, funny and such.....so .............what would you like to hear from people online:D

Would appreciate your help boys
 
There is also manhunt.net.

Just be yourself and don't expect too much. There are a lot of immature, rude, players out there. That said, there are also success stories. I have a number of friends who have met their partners online. You just have to give people a chance.
 
cool thanks for the advice....no i dont think i would be dumb enough to let that happen to me [ i hope]..|
 
barryash said:
cool thanks for the advice....no i dont think i would be dumb enough to let that happen to me [ i hope]..|
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It's more about being careful when you do it with someone who you haven't known for that long. Then again, it's best to be careful no matter how long you've known the other guy for.
 
OkCupid worked for me, as an online dating site...

1 year and 7 months later, still going strong...
 
OK good news i got a date [ sort of] just a few beers

I've been talking online with a guy for 3 weeks and i think we have alot in common, and i think he's interested, as he gave me his email, and then i asked if we want to meet. He said yes....now then this is where is gets harder as you have a real person instead of a screen

basically never been with a guy, been on a date with a guy and even showed interest... just started ,its time to live.. so help a newby out, i know the usual stuff be confident, be urself, dont panic, dont try too hard.....but my q's are

1 [ how do you know if the date is going well?
2 how do you know if hes interested?
3 he has seen my profile pic so i assume he sort of knows what i look like... therefore i shudn;t freak out about what i look like? right?

4 most importantly what are the DO'S and DON'TS or gay dating


excited and would love to make it work:confused:
 
That's good news.

Though, does he have pictures of himself in his online profile? Does this site allow members to verify themselves? If no for both I would say tread carefully. You want to make sure you're not dealing with someone who isn't who they say they are.

Anyway, if he's the real deal just foes to show you can meet like minded guys online. Here's how you know the date is going well and if he's interested:

Body language and verbal compliments. His body language will be open (leaning forward, wanting to be closer to you, smiling) he'll give you a compliment or two, etc.. take note of his body language. Just don't over analyze it.

As for rules of dating. Everyone has different rules but the common question is do you kiss on a first date? It depends on a lot of things if you're both mutually attracted to each other than why not? You should at least kiss him goodbye or give him a hug when the date is over if you like him.

Who pays? You could pay for him if you're feeling chivalrous or vice versa. Or you can pay separately. Sometimes you just have to go with the flow and make the rules as you go.;)

The thing to remember is don't send mixed messages if you like him- let him know as sometimes people will over analyze whether or not a person likes them.

Good luck and stay safe.
 
thanks well its not really a date i guess as its sort of meet in a pub, which i guess takes alot of the pressure off me, ie paying for meals and kissing good bye [ god i never even thought about that hahahha]

yeah he has profile pics - i have to assume there him, i have used pics of myself too, i dotn want to bullshit people. i think if the image he gave me was fake i would freak and walk
 
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