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Opinion on Valentine's Day Gift???

dragon08

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Ok I want to get your guys' opinions on something,

I've been seeing this guy, we aren't boyfriends or anything but we've been talking for a few weeks and we've gone on a handful of dates and they have all gone pretty well. Both of us are looking for a relationship and I'm starting to like this guy.

We're both College students but we don't go to the same school or anything so we only see each other when we have time.

Valentine's Day is this friday, and because I am a romantic at heart I'm going to ask him to be my valentine. I know it sounds childish and stuff but whatever.

I'm probably gonna have a date with him on friday, and I wanted to probably get him something as a valentines gift.

I was thinking that I would try to get him a Handmade Leather Bracelet that my friend makes and a Rose Pin. (Those ones with the flower bud is cut off the stem, they tape the bottom off and you pin it to your shirt.)

I was thinking the bracelet because it's something he could wear whenever, and the rose as something a bit more romantic. I was thinking about just getting a single rose instead of the pin but I feel like the pin is a bit more masculine.

What do you guys think about it is it too much? too little? We just started seeing each other. So I'm not gonna go above and beyond for this valentines, probably dinner and a walk around somewhere and I'm probably not gonna spend a lot on a gift either.

Oh and do you guys think the color of the rose matters? I probably would just get a Red one, but I know that flowers have all of these hidden meanings.

Personally I wouldn't pay much attention to the color if someone got me a rose but is that just me?
 
Since you say you're not boyfriends or anything like that, I would think going out to dinner is enough. A gift of personal jewelry, even a simple bracelet, implies something beyond dating a couple times. He may consider it a bit overbearing. Maybe not. Just my opinion but for now, dinner out would be very nice in and of itself. Maybe the bracelet would come after more dating and you have a more defined relationship going on. I would feel awkward accepting a gift after a couple dates...but that's me.
 
I'd give him the bracelet you described or the flower but not both.
 
If I were you...I would strip him naked and have sex with him on Valentine's Day. :badgrin: That would be my gift.
 
HunterM said:
If I were you...I would strip him naked and have sex with him on Valentine's Day. :badgrin: That would be my gift.
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I'm with Hunter :lol:

How about chocolate covered nuts? He provides the chocolate, you provide the nuts :fellate:

Just go on a date. Dinner and champagne. And tell him you'll give him a cream-filled hotdog for dessert but he has to unwrap the Valentine's package you're carrying when you two are alone :lol:


Oh and share with us how it went :lol:
 
Lol I thought that sex and dinner were a given

Haha I'm not going to just give him the gifts and ditch him on the side of the road lol

I'm planning on actually going out with him but I'm ALSO getting him a gift.
 
dragon08 said:
Lol I thought that sex and dinner were a given
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Oh I didn't know dinner and sex are on your menu.

OK...Then...your gift to him would be NOT to charge him for sex this time. :lol:
 
I think the gift is fine...one or the other...but you mayrisk making him uncomfortable for a few different reasons and one of those might be he may not have a token of affection or you.
 
Hmm, I'm leaning towards the option of not giving him that bracelet.

I think it's a sweet gift, but I think that's a little too soon to give him that.

Sex and dinner are just fine! :)
 
Yeah I decided to ditch the bracelet thing. I'm still getting the rose, and I don't think dinner will be all that fancy. He also mentioned that he likes chocolates so I think I'm gonna get some. I was thinking picking him up going to dinner then we go back to my dorm and pop in a movie that we probably won't finish ;) Lol
 
Ok I figured I'd let you guys know how Valentine's went down. He came and picked me up, I gave him the stuff and we went to a restaurant to eat. Afterwards we went back to my room and laid down together to finish a movie that we hadn't finished the last time I went to his house since neither of us have any self control.
After w finished the movie he was fair game and we had some more fun.
 
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