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Opinions on my straight friend

xianxmichaelx

xianxmichaelx

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Hey guys,

I need some opinions on this one straight friend of mine. We've been acquaintances since elementary school and then became friends when I graduated. I moved on to college to pursue photography and he remained home in my small podunk town. He knows I'm gay and sometimes we joke around about stuff in a touchy feely way but I'm 100% positive that he is really straight. I was talking to him the other night and asked him how he was doing. He said he has been running into some financial and legal problems and has really been doing everything he can to remain financially stable since he is on his own practically. I offered to lend him some money in exchange for modeling for me in a photoshoot. I love his look and even though I'm not interested into fooling myself that I could be in a relationship with him, I have always fantasized about seeing him naked (which I had since before I moved away to college he posed nude for me). So when I asked him if he would be interested in doing that, he said if I paid him enough he would let me give him a blowjob. He was completely serious too! So I offered him 100$ for the photoshoot and another 100$ to let me give him a bj. He was happy with that, but then an hour later he texted me back saying he was backing out of the blowjob. I was cool with that, even though it really excited me. But I just can't get past the whole thing. What was he thinking? We are still good for the photoshoot as soon as I can finish saving enough for it. Any opinions would be much appreciated.

Thanks! :)
 
Nude photography done tastefully is what I do. Before I moved to college he modeled for me because he wanted to do it. I haven't coerced him into doing anything he doesn't want to do. He needs help, I'm helping him, but getting something in return (in the form of photographs). I'm glad he backed out of the second part because I didn't want that to screw up our friendship. It would have been extremely selfish of me to go through with that.
 
xianxmichaelx said:
Nude photography done tastefully is what I do. Before I moved to college he modeled for me because he wanted to do it. I haven't coerced him into doing anything he doesn't want to do. He needs help, I'm helping him, but getting something in return (in the form of photographs). I'm glad he backed out of the second part because I didn't want that to screw up our friendship. It would have been extremely selfish of me to go through with that.
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OK -- NOW that you've CLARIFIED that part of the OP -- I'm much happier with the situation... ..|

As far as asking money for a BJ -- I've never understood the underlying concept...

I mean, really...

WHO is SO EGOTISTICAL to EXPECT to get PAID to get their dick sucked... :rolleyes:

:):):)
 
That's the part I didn't understand. I assume it really is his ego at work thinking he could get paid for me perform sexual favors on him. But whatever made him think that was a good idea to begin with, I don't feel like its a question of his sexuality. I'm just not sure what it is.
 
He should pay YOU for giving him the blow job. Seriously.
 
Reminds me of a website called "Broke College Guys" or "Broke Straight Boys"
You should have done the photoshoot and let him get sexually charge from posing. You could have up the ante.
 
I'd let it go and keep it just a fantasy in your wank-bank. When it comes time for the photo-shoot, give him the extra $100 saying something like, "We're too good of friends. I'd never take advantage of you like that."
 
If he did some thought and reconsidered on the bj chances are he will also do some serious thought and reconsider his friendship status with you in the future..

Yeah I think you've already damaged your friendship in the long run. He isn't comfortable with the offer, maybe he will feel bad for taking up on it at first. Rather guilty or a blow to his own self respect or mistrust of your motives, who can say. It may take a while to see the total fall out.

This was a mistake that you seized the opportunity on based on his current economic needs. Could be harmless but it shows predatory selfish intent even though both benefit its not what I consider friendship. Everyone makes mistakes, hope it works out.
 
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