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Opposites Attract?

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A couple weekends ago I was out on the town, as you do on a Saturday night, and I met this guy at a bar. He was really nice and we talked and danced until about 4am and then parted ways. I've seen him a couple times since in "date" type situations, one and one, which is good, I really like him, and we've been texting and emailing like mad since, and we haven't even done anything aside from makeout.

Anyways, here's the part that baffles me. When I met him, he was wearing a tank top. Which many do I suppose because the bars can get very hot and crowded. He also has the body to be wearing a tank top. It really threw me off because before I always assumed that muscle guys were only into other muscle guys. Not that he's gigantic, but he's definitely been working at it for years. But it's also not like I'm the antithesis of health, going to the gym just isn't a priority of mine.

Clearly he likes me, and I like him, and I'm not going turn him down based on this. It just threw me for a loop is all. Anyone else have something like this happen?
 
I don't believe that "opposites attract". Not that people have to be exactly the same to attract, either, mind you. It's just that when two people hook up, people simply notice the differences more. Yeah, he might be more muscular than you, but you presumably have plenty of other things in common. You both go to clubs, like to dance, and stay up late, for instance. :)

Lex
 
Everyone has their priorities. For some, it's not muscle, it's fur and personality and eyes. Or butt. Or education. Or all of the above.

I typically date younger guys, but now I'm dating an older guy. He's special, what can I say? (He can also bench-press 275 pounds, and I can barely do 75.)

It's great that this guy is looking at you & your personality, rather than just your body.
 
If my arms would reach through the internet, I would bop you upside your head.

You have a hot guy who is interested in you and you're wondering why?

Are you crazy? Stop it!
 
LOL! I'm not questioning it, I'm loving every minute of it. Although with the holidays and everyone going back to their respectable places of birth, can't really be together but for emails and phone calls.

Just thought it a little more of an interesting topic then the usual "i'm in love with my straight best friend" threads.
 
slickery said:
Just thought it a little more of an interesting topic then the usual "i'm in love with my straight best friend" threads.
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Amen to that.
 
I don't think that opposites necessarily attract, either. I think what happens is that sometimes people's traits (physical and personality) compliment each other--they aren't identical to compete, and aren't close-enough-to-be-irritating which can clash.

In your case, you seem to be wondering why a buff guy like that might have an interest in you. I'm in the same boat with my partner and wondered that for years. I can only tell you that different people are attracted to different things. Why isn't fully known (and many don't care). Fortunately for us, we are each other's type. It works well that way.

Enjoy being his type and the budding of a good relationship. May it grow and be happy!
 
Thanks for that. Yes I am loving it. Although we aren't even in the same states for the holidays, so we've been emailing. Which is good because it's opened up a whole new door as far as communication that I feel is often lost in the beginning amongst all the passion.

Plus it's driving me mad, I'm fully going to have to jump him when I see him again!
 
I've often found that guys who are exceptionally muscled or extraordinarily "pretty" are some of the most apporachable and friendly people you are likely to meet. Human chemistry can me tantalizingly complex sometimes.
 
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