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If you caught your partner talking to somebody in a romantic or sexual way online, or did a webcam session with somebody online, would you consider that cheating? Would that be reason enough to separate?

For me, yes, it would be cheating. Not reason enough to separate on a first offense, but if it continued to occur, than it very well may be.
 
Depends on your relationship. I'm in an open relationship. I'd have problems if he was lying to me, but I don't much care about hook-ups and the like.

So it really depends on your terms. If it's not allowed, he's in the wrong. If you haven't discussed it, you need to, if you agreed that it's OK, no issue.
 
Honestly, it would depend on whether he crawled into my bed afterward and I reaped the benefits of the cam session.
 
I don't consider internet sex to be sex.

What I would be worried about is if he's no longer interested in me. That's obviously a dealbreaker.
 
TX-Beau said:
Depends on your relationship. I'm in an open relationship. I'd have problems if he was lying to me, but I don't much care about hook-ups and the like.

So it really depends on your terms. If it's not allowed, he's in the wrong. If you haven't discussed it, you need to, if you agreed that it's OK, no issue.
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^ What he said!
 
The rule isn't "what is he doing?" It's "what is he hiding?" If your guy goes out and gets laid with a bunch of strangers with your full knowledge and consent, he isn't cheating. If he sneaks out late at night just to hold a stranger's hand, he's cheating.

As said above, you need to discuss it with him, and decide where your boundaries are. But this is an area where neither party should dictate, and compromise should rule the day.

...Littleton? :)

Lex
 
When you act out sexually with another person, whether online or in real life, you are being unfaithful to your partner.
 
And you me. And if you're behind the counter, stop turning off the WiiFii fifteen minutes before closing. We were trying to book a flight, damnit. :)

Lex
 
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