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ok, i got outed to my parents, which was not good. it was not supposed to happen that way. they're fine wih it, but annoyed that they fonds out from the moms of the girl i went to elementary school with. she somehow found out, told her moms, who told my mom who told my dad. and they told her very creepily. it's like, you cant say anything, you're lesbian. i dont understand her. now she (the girl i went to elementary school with) is emailing me trying to be friends and everything and im not responding. im actually really mad at her. am i being childish, or does this make sense?
 
Who is she to go tell your parents. It is no one's business to go run their mouth like that unless you asked her to. I would tell that girl to go fuck herself!
 
You're allowed to be upset with her. She was only thinking of herself and what she wanted (a gay friend or someone to identify with) and she jeopardized your wellbeing.
 
I've said it before & I'll say it again.... People suck! :D
You are totally justified in being miffed.
 
I hope you do not intend being friends with that little bucket mouth!! Tell her to go play in the traffic. Can't stand people like that.
 
haha, thanks. i haven't seen her in at least 10 years. i dont't knwo what she was thinking
 
I'd be more angry with her parents for telling your parents. I'd call them up and be really rude and nasty to them and tell them to fuck off.
 
Let's just clarify - it wasn't the girl who blabbed to your parents, it was one of her mom's. Being raised in a lesbian household the girl probably doesn't have the same anxiety about being gay as you and your parents evidently do; it was probably no big deal to her.

Were you openly gay when you were 11? If you haven't seen the girl for 10 years then there are clearly other people out there who know you're gay, so you're probably more 'out' than you think you are.

Since you planned to tell your parents anyway, and now that they know they're fine with it, I don't see what all the drama is about. You're an adult; if you don't want to have a friendship with a woman you last knew when you were children then block her emails. Or had you considered how difficult it might be to be straight growing up in a family of lesbians?
 
spreadeagle said:
Let's just clarify - it wasn't the girl who blabbed to your parents, it was one of her mom's. Being raised in a lesbian household the girl probably doesn't have the same anxiety about being gay as you and your parents evidently do; it was probably no big deal to her.

Were you openly gay when you were 11? If you haven't seen the girl for 10 years then there are clearly other people out there who know you're gay, so you're probably more 'out' than you think you are.

Since you planned to tell your parents anyway, and now that they know they're fine with it, I don't see what all the drama is about. You're an adult; if you don't want to have a friendship with a woman you last knew when you were children then block her emails. Or had you considered how difficult it might be to be straight growing up in a family of lesbians?
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Good point. She doesn't see things the same way you do.

But her moms should have known better. I'd be especially pissed at them.
 
oh, no, it gets even weirder. i came out when i was 14-15 to my friends/schoolmates. we became friends of facebook. when her mom's told my mom, they told her all creepy, like "you know about your son.... right... *pant pant*"
i dont understand. and though my dad is fine with it, has no problems at all, my mom has been getting mad at me more often. this is why i didnt want to tell her.
 
The silver lining here is that you are finally out to them and they and you can start adjusting. I know it didn't happen the way you planned but I say just take the ball and go with it.

Your mom will need to work through her grief which is what she is doing right now. You might look for a local PFLAG to help her. Good luck!
 
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