Out To Three People!!!!

[beatleshead]

IM OUT TO THREE PEOPLE!!!! Jesus fucking christ…if u would’ve asked me a month ago if I would tell anyone…id say no and then I have to kill you for knowing lol and my first guy to come out to was the hardest…I found that he’s my best friend. He gave me so much advice than I know about all this and hes fucking straight…so two girls, one straight guy. I don’t know if I can build to…DUHN DUH DUHN!!!…the parents.

But for the first time, in a long time…I can see light out of the end of the tunnel. I cant wait to go back to school. The Prozac is working…lol and I’m happy. Content.

And for the first time… I’m proud to be gay.

 

[alley]

it gets easier and easier---I hate to around people who don't know now.

 

[Providence]

Give us more details! How did it come up? How did you tell them?

 

[G-Lexington]

It's so much easier to accept ourselves when those closest to us accept us, too. Welcome to the other side.

Lex

 

[EvilForce]

IM OUT TO THREE PEOPLE!!!! Jesus fucking christ…if u would’ve asked me a month ago if I would tell anyone…id say no and then I have to kill you for knowing lol and my first guy to come out to was the hardest…I found that he’s my best friend. He gave me so much advice than I know about all this and hes fucking straight…so two girls, one straight guy. I don’t know if I can build to…DUHN DUH DUHN!!!…the parents.

But for the first time, in a long time…I can see light out of the end of the tunnel. I cant wait to go back to school. The Prozac is working…lol and I’m happy. Content.

And for the first time… I’m proud to be gay.

Congrats! Feels great doesn't it?

 

[landers]

Give us more details! How did it come up? How did you tell them?

I agree, more details.

If you're worried about your parents, you should probably tell you mom first. Somehow they always seem to know (at least the accepting ones).

 

[beatleshead]

sorry, ive been busy. ummm...the first girl i did it through email after we went to dinner cos i relized what a duche i was for lying to her for so long when shes my best friend...i actually posted that here. but anyway she got it and took me to lunch and was fully supportive and asking me so strange questions which were laughable but she was genuinely curious. lol

the second was the guy, which i was being really mean to when i attacked my mom two weeks ago (whole 'notha post). so i was sitting tortured about that and so i sent him a message via myspace and explained everything to him. it took him a couple of days but eventually he sent me a message and said how he was upset that i didnt tell him earlier. later we talked on AIM and he was giving so much advice and stuff...making jokes and then we talked a bit about his realationship problems with girls...were closer i think cos we never talk about that stuff...i have a bit of a crush on him lol but you know what...hes my best friend. so yeah that was cool.

That same night i said what the heck and aim my friend whos coming home on thursday. she was fully supportive and everything and laughed when i told her i would be the same person...i wouldnt frost my hair or wear tight jeans or go see sex in the city lol

the funny thing is all of them had NO IDEA. i mean maybe im a bit insecure cos im gay but...i had no idea i was so manly...all of them said that i would probably be the masculine type...but i mean i never viewed myself like that its pretty funny lol

which, if any of you have read my post about Manny my disaster crush, now im pretty sure he thinks im straight, and he probably though i wasnt picking up his signals. which makes me a bit sad. but whatever...im the happiest ive been in years.

 

[EvilForce]

Yup, and now that you are out, you'll realize just how silly hiding in the closet was. People respect you more, and your friends start wanting to introduce you to other gay friends. It's a good place to be.

You stop caring about trying to be so butch, and hiding your gayness. If you feel like being a queeny diva for an afternoon, you can be. You also, start accepting yourself. Which means it helps you accept others that may be different. Maybe before that gay guy you kinda thought was cute, but too ______________ all of a sudden becomes, simply, "hot" or "cute". You quit caring what others think, and finally, FINALLY, and for the very first time, start thinking, acting on, and showing your true nature and your true desires, without giving a shit what a bunch of str8 people you don't know think.

Welcome to the wonderful life of being "out"!

 

[954dude]

You should be proud, because if you love yourself, there's nothing to be ashamed of. This is YOUR life, not anyone else's, regardless of what they think. Many of my friends have gotten closer to me because I'm open about my thoughts and feelings rather than being scared.