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Overactive sex drive - Need help!

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I am 19 and have a big problem. I have an overactive sex drive and it's ruining my relationship.

I am erect or semi erect almost all day long. I get aroused by the slightest thing. When I masturbate, I don't go flaccid after ejaculation but stay hard, I usually have to climax 4 - 5 times before my penis deflates even a little, and I often masturbate to climax 12 - 15 times a day.

This has been causing me a lot of problems; my boyfriend is afraid of my sexuall needs and I get demanding if they are not met, I have trouble focussing on my studies and my job and it has landed me in uncomfortable situations.

I am active and lead a healthy lifestyle. I get excersise and I have a good diet. I have ADD but I'm not on any medication for it.

This is not a joke, please help me!
 
If your problem is to the degree that you describe, then you should make an appointment with your doctor.
 
your best bet is getting a physical to rule out things and get a idea of what may be happening.

The other side of this is just to try to have fun with it, even it it means j/o alot.

Your bf may not have the same drive but talk with him to at least help you out and have him j/o you off.

but you should see a doctor to rule out any thing else.

Getting a check up once a yr is good anyway..
 
best advice is to see your dr. could be anything from that's just the way your wired to a sex addiction. I know your looking for an answer and I wish I had a better one for you. A lot of people don't understand. It's just sex, nothing wrong with that. However when it occupies your every thought and changes your behavior then it needs to be looked into. If your not comfortable talking with your family doc or they don't give you an acceptable answer try to see a therapist/psychiatrist. Most important is that you do something. don't wait for it to get better on it's own or be too embarrassed about it. Most people in the medical field won't judge you. They really do want to help.
 
Thank you all for the advice. I'll make a plan to get to a doctor. I always thought it might be something that I out grow, but doesn't look like it.

racer2438 said:
The other side of this is just to try to have fun with it, even it it means j/o alot.

Your bf may not have the same drive but talk with him to at least help you out and have him j/o you off.
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My bf is very supportive, he even makes me porn for when he is at work :D. But we are both concerned that there might be something deeper that is wrong.

Again, thanx for the advice guys!
 
definitely consult a physician. Could be like a hormonal imbalance or something.
 
Been(am) there, exercise instead.
And stop doing fast/simple carbs... atleast it has that effect on me.
 
STAY away from products like Zoloft..That stuff turns people into Zombies..

Consult your Primary Physician about your concerns and he/she will refer you to a specialist that will help you...
 
and don't just see this as a medical issue...it is also a relationship issue whether you have a medical issue or not.

make a commitment not to pressure your boyfriend - he doesn't have to touch you if he's not in the mood at the moment... sometimes my boyfriend and i are not horny at the same time and one of us will jerk off while the other watches...no pressure to do the same thing.. but i get a buzz out of watching him do it even if I'm not going to get involved until the next time and vice versa.

maybe your bf could have fun times with you like that without feeling so much pressure to take part.

15 times a day is a lot though, just because of how much time it takes up to cum 15 times. i would get checked out by a doctor, just to see what is going on. A medical opinion might also help your boyfriend to understand your sex drive. Hopefully you can both come to agreement that you don't always need the same level of sex drive, but if you are worried about it, then he's probably just looking out for you with his own concern..
 
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