Penetration!

[krsnayan]

I just had a question... DOES IT HURT WHEN YOU GET FUCKED FOR THE FIRST TIME??

 

[banpei]

it will hurt butt you'll get used to it and then its something you'll gonna want al the time

 

[ozguy]

Depends on the preparations ... if you take it slow and steady, indulge in plenty of anal foreplay and use lots of lube, the pleasure should far outweigh any initial pain you might feel. Go for the "ram-bam-thank-you-ma'm" approach, and you're likely to hit the ceiling screaming!

The key to any great fuck is for the fuckee ALWAYS to be in control.

Oh, and don't forget the condom!

 

[jonjon35]

Let mikey try it. I did and it hurt like hell so did consecutive tries. The old adage it's better to give than receive is oh so true. Nothin like good tight hole. I'll stay a top thank you.

 

[timnmostud]

It's all about the preparation! Ozguy pretty much said it. If you do it right there should be very little pain. In fact the first time I did it I wouldn't say there was any pain at all. After that there was a time or two from people who didn't know what they were doing. Go slow, use lube and relax as much as you can. It's actually a good idea to practice by yourself with some toys first. That way you can learn how your body works and how to open up and enjoy. Good luck!

 

[sweet_taboo]

It always hurts just a little in the beginning. I actually enjoy and look forward to the sensation...

 

[bulge]

I am totally homo and I cann't get anything up my ass like about 2/3 of all guys (str8s and gays). Only very few guys seem to be able to develop actual anal talents.

 

[Twisly]

it hurts a bit.. but if your man is good enough he'll know when to push it.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

As a rule, most guys will find anal penetration to be painful to some extent. Few guys know how to relax and few tops are VERY patient and very accommodating and very selfless, too. I would never go as far as to count on 'ideal' circumstances...

Most top dudes are reasonable and supportive of their bttms. However, they are aslo expecting that the bttm dude knows his ropes, too. One of them is being able to take a certain amount of pain that may be associated with anal penetration.

My advice: if you choose to bttm, be prepared for some pain, too. It mostly (NOT universally) comes with the territory. And be prepared to take it like a man. A whining bttm dude is usually a huge turn off. So, think hard and think twice. If you choose to go with it, don't whine over it and do not go around regretting it. Regrets are useless.

SC

 

[Mahram]

Several of the keys here have been mentioned: relax, plenty of lube, a patient top, etc. One other key is to actually WANT to get fucked. If you're having doubts, your butt just ain't gonna let anything in. You gotta want it.

 

[sam-sf]

I love the initial pain, feeling totally at mercy of a nice hot dudes big dick penetrating my ass. Afterwards, it's pure heaven!

 

[Papoose]

. And be prepared to take it like a man. A whining bttm dude is usually a huge turn off. So, think hard and think twice. If you choose to go with it, don't whine over it and do not go around regretting it. Regrets are useless.

SC

Do you mean Whining about the pain?
Or like moaning a whine moan? If you understand what I man

 

[Ramindra]

Please sir! Why is this thread in the Ethnic Studs forum?