Penis size insecurity with younger fuck buddy

[guyfromweho]

A little back story. About 3 months ago, I was at my friend's little kick-back. His younger brother and 2 of his friends were also there. At one point, I had to take a leak and one of my friend's brother's friends did too. But the bathrooms were taken and my friend told us to go around the back to the end of the cul de sac where they lived and pee in the bushy dirt path alley because no one ever goes there or sees anything in there.

We both go and have a little chat on the quick walk there. When we start to piss, he just stands in the middle of the dirt path right in front of me, takes out his cock and starts pissing. He doesn't even try to hide it, it's right in front of me. I took out my cock and started peeing too. I got jealous and insecure right away. He has a 8.75" thick cock while I had a barely 6" good girth cock. His nuts were bigger than mine too. Im 24 (bi) and he's 21 (bi). I just kept thinking how did this younger kid have a bigger cock than me. In the middle of the piss, he sees me looking and jokingly says "yea, thanks dude" and we both laugh thinking the other guy isn't gay or bi. Then he asked if I wanted to feel how big it was for myself, again as a joke. But I took the chance and grabbed it and he didn't say anything. A minute later, I was sitting on a ledge in that dirt alley sucking his cock.

Three days later, he texts me to see if he can fuck me. I told him he had a nice body and cock but felt weird about getting fucked by a guy who was younger and had a bigger cock. I'm more muscular than he is so maybe that fueled my insecurity too. He said its ok that it would be great. I gave in and we started fucking exclusively and bareback since then until now. He has a gf too but she knows about us and is ok with it. The sex has been great since we started but it started to feel weird about 3 weeks ago. He has a straight roommate that still likes to watch gay porn and occasionally watches us for a couple of minutes and I'm ok with that. Three weeks ago, my guy was fucking me on my back when his roommate walks in to take a quick peek. My cock is a softie when Im bottoming so it looks like a little kid's compared to my guy's cock when he's railing me. When his roommate comes up to the bed and looks down at my guy's cock drilling in and out of me, he says "wow bro, his cock looks like a 5 year olds compared to yours, look at that." My guy pulls out his cock and puts it on mine to compare with his roommate. slaps it a couple time with his cock and says "looks like little bros got the bigger cock huh bro?" to me.

That situation made me feel insecure and jealous all over again. He never says or does things like that when its just me or him but I know he's always getting hot on the fact that he's the "little bro" and has a more massive cock than me. It just becomes more obvious when his roommate is watching or in the next room. A couple of days ago, I decided to wear a jockstrap that covered my package just to see what happens. He was fucking me on my back on the bed again when his roommate walked in. When his roommate came up to the bed and looked down at him fucking me, my guy decides to pull my jockstrap aside fully exposing my cock and balls again to his roommate. I knew exactly what he was doing. He was showing off again and showing his roommate how much bigger his cock is.

My question is how do I bring this up to him without sounding like a pussy or child? I want to tell him it bothers me but feel really immasculated about the whole bigger cock vs smaller cock thing as it is. What should I do?

 

[AngolaZee]

First off the fact that you are okay with having sex in front of his roommate is baffling. You have repeatedly put yourself in a position where you are being humiliated. He's not the only guy in the world with a dick so I don't see why you are even putting up with this. Clearly the guy enjoys showing off how big his cock is compared to yours. Needless to say you are just his sperm hole and he does not give a damn about how you feel

Barebacking? A guy you just met 3 months ago? Did you even check his HIV test results because that is the only way you have unprotected sex with guys you just met. If you get HIV you totally deserve it, it is precisely this kind of stupidity that lands you with AIDS and full of regrets.

Why are you putting yourself through this humiliation when there are so many nicer guys out there with even bigger dicks (if thats really what you're after)

He has a straight roommate that still likes to watch gay porn and occasionally watches us for a couple of minutes and I'm ok with that.

Well clearly you are not okay with that so get your self esteem sorted out and put an end to this nonsense

 

[racer2438]

When we start to piss, he just stands in the middle of the dirt path right in front of me, takes out his cock and starts pissing. He doesn't even try to hide it, it's right in front of me. I took out my cock and started peeing too. I got jealous and insecure right away. He has a 8.75" thick cock while I had a barely 6" good girth cock. His nuts were bigger than mine too. Im 24 (bi) and he's 21


Ok this part I did not get... how would you he has a 8.5" cock if your just pissing..????

that would not be known until after you may have seen him hard, if your story is right. So it's not in the right order...


He could not have pull out a hard 8.5" cock right at first just to start pissing..


And rest is your own insecurity, that is comign to the fore front and or has always been there but made worse cuz he teased you about it.

This is something you can not change but only in your own head, and size does not matter to most cuz it's same as we have always heard, "it's not the size it's how you use it" which we have all heard b4. So if you let it get to yuu as it seems to be it may only get worse unless you mentally do something about. So maby be it's smaller but it's still average for most nothing wrong there. Maybe your a better lover than they are, maybe you last longer than them? either way --->> it is what it is and nothing you can do about it.

 

[guyfromweho]

Barebacking? A guy you just met 3 months ago? Did you even check his HIV test results because that is the only way you have unprotected sex with guys you just met.

Don't worry dude. I saw his results and he got re-tested for me about a week before we started screwing.

Why are you putting yourself through this humiliation when there are so many nicer guys out there with even bigger dicks (if thats really what you're after)

I wouldn't call it humiliation more than I would call it me just being insecure. He didn't make fun of me or anything just stated the truth and obvious: my dick did look a lot smaller than his during sex. He's a perfect FB. Gives it to me right and just the way I want and need it. He's a 'perfect fit' you can say.

 

[guyfromweho]

Ok this part I did not get... how would you he has a 8.5" cock if your just pissing..????

that would not be known until after you may have seen him hard, if your story is right. So it's not in the right order...


He could not have pull out a hard 8.5" cock right at first just to start pissing..

Sorry, I guess I forgot to mention that it wasn't fully 8.75" when I saw it at first. it was about 5.5-6" flaccid which made me think he had a huge cock. I learned that he was 8.75 after I asked him and he told me.

And rest is your own insecurity, that is comign to the fore front and or has always been there but made worse cuz he teased you about it.

This is something you can not change but only in your own head, and size does not matter to most cuz it's same as we have always heard, "it's not the size it's how you use it" which we have all heard b4. So if you let it get to yuu as it seems to be it may only get worse unless you mentally do something about. So maby be it's smaller but it's still average for most nothing wrong there. Maybe your a better lover than they are, maybe you last longer than them? either way --->> it is what it is and nothing you can do about it.

You're right. it's just my insecurity. He wasn't trying to tease me btw. He was just making an observation and trying to be 'hot' about it. I guess it's my alpha male personality that cant accept him having a bigger cock than me, especially when hes younger.

 

[guyfromweho]

I think this story only exists in your head.

What do you mean? How so?

 

[kombatwombat]

He sounds like a douche. Either get rid of him or when he makes fun of your cock the next time, punch him in the throat. He'll stop doing it after that.

 

[mredorange]

The worse thing to be insecure about in life is the size of your penis simply because it is what you were dealt and it's unchangeable. Having played football for a number of years, I will tell you that your insecurity is only coming from you and not what people say about you. There were guys who were very proud and small and other guys quite shy and seemingly large or well-hung. That still exist in the locker rooms at the gyms I go to today. Please know, it's not a size insecurity but it's a personal insecurity. The only thing you can do is get yourself more comfortable with yourself. When you're at home, you should get yourself comfortable with seeing yourself naked. One thing is to be naked and another is to be naked when there are mirrors present. Sleep naked. Have breakfast naked. Brush your teeth naked. Do house chores naked. If someone happens to see you when you're in a perfectly legal place to be naked, then so be it. That's part of the process of you being ok with what you've got. Never allow someone else to dictate how you feel about yourself. If you have a partner that's wants to bump penis', then do it and tell'm that's sexy. If anything is ever said by anyone else about your size make sure to tell them that you too were created perfectly by God just as they were. You just have to do the work to believe that about yourself. NO ONE can make you feel ANYTHING about yourself that you don't already feel. You have got to do the work to get beyond feeling this way. This is not just your current situation. Good luck with this.

 

[crubbed]

The worse thing to be insecure about in life is the size of your penis simply because it is what you were dealt and it's unchangeable. Having played football for a number of years, I will tell you that your insecurity is only coming from you and not what people say about you. There were guys who were very proud and small and other guys quite shy and seemingly large or well-hung. That still exist in the locker rooms at the gyms I go to today. Please know, it's not a size insecurity but it's a personal insecurity. The only thing you can do is get yourself more comfortable with yourself. When you're at home, you should get yourself comfortable with seeing yourself naked. One thing is to be naked and another is to be naked when there are mirrors present. Sleep naked. Have breakfast naked. Brush your teeth naked. Do house chores naked. If someone happens to see you when you're in a perfectly legal place to be naked, then so be it. That's part of the process of you being ok with what you've got. Never allow someone else to dictate how you feel about yourself. If you have a partner that's wants to bump penis', then do it and tell'm that's sexy. If anything is ever said by anyone else about your size make sure to tell them that you too were created perfectly by God just as they were. You just have to do the work to believe that about yourself. NO ONE can make you feel ANYTHING about yourself that you don't already feel. You have got to do the work to get beyond feeling this way. This is not just your current situation. Good luck with this.

Wow that's such helpful advice. Thanks. I too have penis insecurity. I'll try to do as you said.

 

[dutchmaster]

This story sounds made up.

 

[Seasoned]

^Add me to the list.

 

[youngnihilist]

You're claiming you're from Weho which is one of the gayest places in the world, yet you're bi in the closet, so is this guy, and he has a girlfriend that's okay with it?

 

[Benjoe]

Umm I kind of got hard reading this... I'm not the only one I hope?

I do find the whole sexual humiliation a bit of a turn on

 

[Rolyo85]

Yeah, the whole thing sounds very fake. Also, I love the straight roommate who comes in while they have sex and leans in to inspect sizes and make comments about it. Dafuq? Sounds like Fraternity X stuff...

 

[billybob109]

If this situation is even true than dude tell his roommate to fuck off. And by the way your exclusive fuck buddy is totally fucking his roommate too by the way. Tell your exclusive hookup his roommate has to go or you go.

 

[vulgar_newcomer]

Im 24 (bi) and he's 21 (bi). I just kept thinking how did this younger kid have a bigger cock than me.

Yeah you old geezer how does that young whipper ~snapper, way out of your generation get the long side of the stick and you the short? Well with age every thing shrinks and wrinkles. Remember when you were a young man and 6' tall, now that age has set in I bet you barely stand 5'8". The laws of gravity.

 

[guyfromweho]

The worse thing to be insecure about in life is the size of your penis simply because it is what you were dealt and it's unchangeable. Having played football for a number of years, I will tell you that your insecurity is only coming from you and not what people say about you. There were guys who were very proud and small and other guys quite shy and seemingly large or well-hung. That still exist in the locker rooms at the gyms I go to today. Please know, it's not a size insecurity but it's a personal insecurity. The only thing you can do is get yourself more comfortable with yourself. When you're at home, you should get yourself comfortable with seeing yourself naked. One thing is to be naked and another is to be naked when there are mirrors present. Sleep naked. Have breakfast naked. Brush your teeth naked. Do house chores naked. If someone happens to see you when you're in a perfectly legal place to be naked, then so be it. That's part of the process of you being ok with what you've got. Never allow someone else to dictate how you feel about yourself. If you have a partner that's wants to bump penis', then do it and tell'm that's sexy. If anything is ever said by anyone else about your size make sure to tell them that you too were created perfectly by God just as they were. You just have to do the work to believe that about yourself. NO ONE can make you feel ANYTHING about yourself that you don't already feel. You have got to do the work to get beyond feeling this way. This is not just your current situation. Good luck with this.

Great advice! thanks.

 

[guyfromweho]

This story sounds made up.

How so? I know the whole roommate thing sounds a little far-fetched but both my guy and I thought a little voyeur would be hot for us. And I still agree it still is minus the whole comparison thing.

 

[guyfromweho]

You're claiming you're from Weho which is one of the gayest places in the world, yet you're bi in the closet, so is this guy, and he has a girlfriend that's okay with it?

I'm sorry I don't get what you're trying to say. You're saying that just because I'm from Weho, I have to be forth-coming about my bisexuality? Besides, who ever said I was in the closet? And yes, a lot of gfs here in socal are ok with their bfs having a bisexual relationship believe it or not.

 

[rareboy]

Well, I guess you've received good advice about overcoming your insecurity about penis size.

Your putative fuck buddy and his roommate both sound like douches though.

And there are holes in this tale that you could drive a truck through.