I have to be honest but I still think such numbers are far too low. I think some excellent points are made above... but something tells me, in my gut, that 1 to 3, even to 10% is far too low. Again, I am NOT saying we will ever be the majority...we won't. But there is just something that tells me we are not as "rare" as we all think we are...particularly if you factor in bisexuality. Yes, I am one of those people that does look at sexuality as a spectrum, and I don't think it's black and white. Certainly there are those that may fall there, but I think there are more than we will ever really know that certainly fall in the shades of gray. But considering the world we live in, with all its pressures, traditions, religious beliefs, and more...how many of those that may fall there are willing to embrace it, live it, let alone proclaim it openly?
Again, I suppose they are all just are own personal beliefs...and certainly our own experiences play into what we believe. Jasun's experience is his own, and is completely valid (and I think his videos and opinions on these things are very informative)...but that's his experience. Mine is mine, and is probably quite different. And Robin brings up things that I was thinking of... that there are SO many different factors that play into basically keeping people in the closet (or worse) - and I do think there are probably more people in the closet still today then there are out. Societal pressures, traditions, religious influences (big time!), gender issues, masculinity vs. femininity, and more...it all plays into the fact that I don't think we will ever really get an accurate number.
Again, I do not claim to be an expert, but I see a lot of "I may do this", "I may do that", "I may feel this way...or that"... but I'm still straight. Heterosexuality is the "norm", and I think a lot of men try to hold onto every ounce of that. You look at some of these studies (a couple large ones recently) of men admitting to same sex feelings and/or interactions (what seem beyond mere experimentation), yet still claiming to be 100% heterosexual. Or the stories of many men working in the sex trade that seem to end up servicing primarily "straight" men that end up going home to the gfs and/or wives... ?
It certainly makes you think.
It could all very well be something like 2-3%, or it may just be that there really are more of us than we will ever really know. (Though I am factoring in same sex feelings in general - gay and bi. I think the OP was referring to homosexuality only. Sorry

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