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playing rugby and being gay

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I think in my opinion that u should just be honest and just say when u get the chance and yes u may find that some people arent as supportive as others but i dont think u can get kicked off the team for ur sexuality as this is then discrimination and technically illegal i think? But look at what happened with the rugby player gareth thomas who came out earlier this year no one really cared (in a good way) and he is still continuing to play and he said that his teammates were supportive but at the end of the day its ur decision but before u do take some time to get to know ur team before saying anything anyway hope this helps ..|
p.s. slightly jealous of u getting to play with all those men and shower with them afterwards :-)
 
Just tell your teamies that you think Gareth Thomas is hot.

'nuff said.
 
If you have to try out for the club and are only accepted if you are good enough to play then you are a needed and wanted player. As far as coming out goes, you don't need to make any grand announcement. Once you are on the team just be honest. Don't join in the pussy chatter.

If you really see this as a "preference," rather than an, "orientation," perhaps you are bi
 
i think what it matters is being a good player and the team is gonna accept and support you anyway, i don't think it's gonna be a problem for them, just be clear as you were clear in your post and make them understand that you are a man, what you do in your bed is not their business anyway and as long as you don't screw things by hitting on them or looking at their penises in the showers i'm sure they are gonna be ok with your sexual orientation. explain how much you love playing rugby and everything is gonna be ok :-)

good luck
 
When you join a new team they will probably ask you some things about yourself.

If you are asked about a girlfriend or if you are in a relationship you tell them, that you have not found the right GUY yet. Easy.

That way you don't have to tell it to everyone, but you can be honest if someone is interested in your personal life.
 
First. Welcome to JUB. Hope you enjoy your time here.

Just play it like anyone else. Do the straight guys make an announcement? "hey fella's, just thought you should know. I like women." No. So why should a gay guy need to make an announcement? Doesn't make sense. Be who you are. Don't hide it but you don't have to fly out of the closet with bells on either. Don't get drawn into the locker room talk about women. If someone asks if you have a gf. a simple "no" is all you need to say. If you feel like saying more that's up to you. "no. I'm gay." Then move on to something else.

Just be who you are. A rugby player that happens to be gay. Enough said.

Steven.
 
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