Please help guys, need a good advice on what to do!

[yehme2]

ok this is going to be kinda long.


I met this guy randomly on Grindr, we spoke for a few days and decided to meet. As I approached him i nearly turned back cause he was defiantly not my type but i decided to give it a shot. After we spoke for a little while at a bar where a game was showing we decided to head back to mine. We made out and we decided to meet after that. We met up every weekend for like 5 or 6 weeks. Then he left to his home country and I did too. I send him a few messages on facebook, he replies but after like weeks later even though he's active on facebook. I feel really stupid because i am stupidly in love with this guy :'( I can't really get over him and he just seems so un interested. Everytime i log onto fb chat and he's there he immediately signs out. Which confirms what I think. What do i do?? I can't get over him and he seems uninterested but still replies. Is he just using me or does he plan on eventually meeting up again? I am in limbo and can't get over this, even though i really want to. Should i just delete him on facebook??

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

ya heart full his a not

sorry

hey millions a dudes round globe so next time ya know betta

Kool

 

[yehme2]

ya heart full his a not

sorry

hey millions a dudes round globe so next time ya know betta

Kool

What??

 

[star-warrior]

Grindr for hook ups, and probably that's what you were for him. Bit of sex, nothing more. Sorry to hear you're messed up about this, but you have to put it behind you. If you're in different countries, I guess the chance of meeting up again is slim.

 

[highwindcaleb]

guys are dicks. don't worry about it, I've had something similar happen to me, it sucks but you gotta move on

 

[yehme2]

Grindr for hook ups, and probably that's what you were for him. Bit of sex, nothing more. Sorry to hear you're messed up about this, but you have to put it behind you. If you're in different countries, I guess the chance of meeting up again is slim.

I am returning after a few months and i told him about it. I think i need to get over him and block him out and just enjoy what we had. After all i am 22.

 

[chrisrobin]

guys are dicks. don't worry about it, I've had something similar happen to me, it sucks but you gotta move on

Ever heard of the book Men Are Pigs but We Love Bacon? Might be good for a few grins.

 

[Efrackalecki]

Maybe he's into you, too, but he just doesn't want a long distance relationship. The way I see it, you can talk to him about it or you can forget him.

 

[Telstra]

ok this is going to be kinda long.


I met this guy randomly on Grindr, we spoke for a few days and decided to meet. As I approached him i nearly turned back cause he was defiantly not my type but i decided to give it a shot. After we spoke for a little while at a bar where a game was showing we decided to head back to mine. We made out and we decided to meet after that. We met up every weekend for like 5 or 6 weeks. Then he left to his home country and I did too. I send him a few messages on facebook, he replies but after like weeks later even though he's active on facebook. I feel really stupid because i am stupidly in love with this guy :'( I can't really get over him and he just seems so un interested. Everytime i log onto fb chat and he's there he immediately signs out. Which confirms what I think. What do i do?? I can't get over him and he seems uninterested but still replies. Is he just using me or does he plan on eventually meeting up again? I am in limbo and can't get over this, even though i really want to. Should i just delete him on facebook??

Just find other guys. Find as many guys as possible. The end.

 

[Seasoned]

He has your information if he's interested. Stop checking in with him and keep your encounters as pleasant memories. What you had seems like it was special. It's impossible to force a relationship. Take care of yourself. Good luck.

 

[yehme2]

He has your information if he's interested. Stop checking in with him and keep your encounters as pleasant memories. What you had seems like it was special. It's impossible to force a relationship. Take care of yourself. Good luck.

I will go with this. Thank you for the advice

 

[yehme2]

I also agree he is kinda of a jerk :/

 

[yehme2]

He's not interested. And he's hoping you get the message.. and just doesn't want to say it to you upfront.

But honestly.. can you blame him? I'm guessing you are in different countries.

Did he promise he would stay in contact? Otherwise you can't really be mad at him.

You may be right. I have stopped chasing after him so i think im getting the message. Took a while i must say..