Please please please give me your advice guys

[jamietxx2]

Hey guys

ive posted a similar thread before but i really need your oppinion on one of my closest friends.

Tonight i rang my friend and we decided to get some beers and hang out and he came around mine and immediately he went on the internet and went on porn. Ok thats just what guys do rite? Well we had some more beers and his foot kept touching mine and it seemed like he was slowly but contiunously rubbing my foot also. We then went on to cam4.com and he commented on how big a guys dick was. After watching a woman on one of the cams he showed me his hardon in his jeans, which he told me was 8 inches and looked like it was and then he kept lookin at my crotch and saying "james put it away man, i can see it" because i was hard 2. He sed i needed 2 control myself. We were both hard and after a while we just went off the porn and went onto facebook and we lost the bottle opener and he said it could be on the floor. I got down and looked underneath the desk and he said "Whilst your down there, haha, joke" and i sed "u wish" and laughed. Things went normal and then after about another half an hour he lay on the bed with his crotch in full view and pretended to be alseep so i wacked him with the remote and told him 2 stop fooling about but he just lay there with his tshirt half up his chest and his crotch facing me. He then pretended to wake up and sed "Joke". After this he kept mimiking wanking with his fist and saying he cudnt wait to get home and have a wank. I sed i cudnt either. He kept saying things like "Im guna get my cock out, joke" always joke like about 15 different things but he sed joke after them. Well he decided to go and i sed he cud stay if he wanted but he sed he had work early and if i had some porn he cud borrow.. I have him a dvd and then he got a cab home. Im sooooooo frustrated becus i want to experience something with him and i would not mind wanking him off/blowjob but at the same time i dnt want to lose him as a m8??

Guys honest oppinion do you think he is bi? I think he could be like me. Also how should i approach this situation? Any advice? Got to remember im nervous never actually touched a guy b4 just jacked off 2gether.

Also he keeps saying how hes got a much bigger dick than me, i have 7inch and he says hes got 8.5 which is fair enough but he enjoys telling me and showing me his bulge.

Thanks guys , any advice would be much much MUCH appreciated

 

[racer2438]

I would try another beer/porn night and see how hot you can get each other. And talk about do a j/o session while watching the porn.

 

[markriley]

Just slip some GHB in his drink next time and fuck the shit out of him.

 

[blackapino666]

Yeah thats not a funny joke. . . At least i hope your joking. Next time if he starts doing that filrt back and see what happens if its going down hill just say you were joking.

 

[propoolplayer99]

He's straight. Get over it, just enjoy having a good friend.

 

[undeux]

he was obviously telling you you should suck his dick.

 

[PhoenixRandall]

he wants you....quit be scared and do something about it.

 

[Blueboy369]

The next time he says he wants to wank say "That sounds like fun, let's do it"! If he backs off, just act like you were joking.

 

[SUP3R B0i]

wow Jamietxx2 thats basically how my first time was with a guy [my best friend] you can message me on how it happened if ur intrested im sure i can help you out there

 

[conrad]

Friends just don't lead each other on that way. So, if he is much a friend as you seem to indicate, level with him. Tell him you would like to show your feelings for him in a way he won't forget. You might be subtle and let him know that you would like the same from him. That might be enough to allow you to get in the 69 position and give each other tender and caring blow jobs. Maybe, he just doesn't want to be the first one to show where his feeling are at. Let him know that your are not joking. It wouldn't hurt to let him know that it's time for him to stop joking and to put up or shut up.

Things may have changed, but I doubt it. First, when one has bonded in genuine friendship it is only natural to want to express that feeling. My experince has been that that comes gradually and when you are ready for sexual contact with that friend, that friend is as eager as you. Ideally, you should fall into each others arms, and when the sex is finished you spend time to tell your friend what it meant you. Forget about his bigger cock; that's not important. What is important is the relationship. If the relationship is strong there will doubless be many repeats. And, believe me, that kind of sex only gets better with repetition.

 

[Rex]

LOL these situations always are funny because everyone has completely different advice.

I think he'd be up for messing around to be honest. From the sound of it he seems like he wants to mess around but has this happened more than once? It could have been he was just really horny that night.

Anyway, did the OP ever come back? If he does I'd be interested in hearing where this lead.

 

[jamietxx2]

Hey guys thort id update you on the situation...

We had another nite in the other nite of which I would like to add that he was very up 4 considering I said we should go to a niteclub he sed he rely wanted 2 just go 2 mine and chill. So we got to mine drank quite a bit of beer and tbh much of what happened before happened again except it was him constantly putting porn on and talking abt porn and then he kept looking at my crotch and telling me 2 put my hardon away jokingly but then he would rub his own crotch about 5 mins after that and he was obviously hard. We played the ps3 for a bit and then he went to toiler but before he did he punched my crotch not hard but kinda jokingly and when he come back I hit him back and then he began to wrestle me (Randomly :S Hes never done this b4 and were both 20 not 12 lol). After this he all of a sudden pretended to be asleep lay on my bed with his zip undone and I could tell he was fucking about and I thought to myself Fuk it im fed up of him playing games im going to just ignore him and he can come to me and make the move or something (Maybe i shudnt have felt this way but it kinda annoyed me that he keeps doing this and whenever he mentions somethign he always backs out and expects me 2 come on 2 him i think). Well i left it and I noticed out of my corner of my eye that he was watching me and when i would turn around he wud close his eyes with his hand resting on his crotch and his tshirt half up his chest. Well after he sed he needed a wank again and I was still too worried 2 make a move because im not openly Bi and I wouldnt want to lose friends over it if you know what i mean. He eventually went home but the next day i saw him at his work and he sed 2 me what did u do last nite after i left and i sed I just chilled and watched some tv and he sed I had a huge wank and cummed everywhere?? I thought why tell me that !? Not that i minded...

Well i go back to uni in about 5 days so im guna see if he wants another nite in and see what happens but frankly im getting a bit bored of the stupid games now..

Thanks for all your advice its been helpful and anymore wud be appreciated.

 

[blackbeltninja]

Next time it happens if he says he's bigger than you, get your cock out and tell him to prove it.

See what happens from there.

-d-

 

[Blueboy369]

You missed a golden opportunity my friend. Trust me, he wants to fool around. Next time go for it!

 

[Twistedup]

man he may want to fool around but don't do it!!! i just learned that one the hard way.

 

[kramer362]

Next time he looks at your crotch and says to put it away, tell him next time he says that you're gonna actually pull it out. and i guarantee he'll tell you to put it away again. then pull it out and tell him to prove his is really bigger. then touch them when you compare. and then say you haven't gotten any in a while and you'll do him a favor if he does the same.

 

[JNewYork]

This topic is HOT!

The dude definitely wants to get with you.

The next time he comments about your bulge: Look right at his and say, I think you need to put yours away.

Then add, "although yours is so small."

This will get him to remind you how big his is. Look again right at his bulge and say "That ain't as big as me."

Point right at it, with your finger almost touching it. Maybe even "accidentally" gently bump your finger into his bulge.

There are a billion options. You are crazy to let this go. HE WANTS YOU.

 

[HeliosZephyr]

From the sounds of it, he uses the "joke" thing like "no homo." Which would mean he's bi, at the very least. Especially when they do it over and over as you described; once or twice is cute, ten times is flamboyant, ya know?

I would say...get him as drunk as possible. That way, you can ask him if he'd like to have a sexual experience with you. If he says yes, you can have at it. If he says no...he'll probably forget you asked him by the time he passes out on a couch.

Whatever you do, DO NOT push the issue. If he says no, let the topic slide. Don't try to seduce him. That'll push a straight guy friend away extremely quick.

 

[Twistedup]

again...sorry guys...but DO NOT GET HIM DRUNK AND PUSH THE ISSUE!!! if in time you guys work it out you will...but realize you are risking losing a good friend who you might otherwise have fun and playfully fuck around with for years to come. i'd take that option any day. try giving him back his cues. lay on the bed and raise you shirt up...maybe rub your junk while watching porn together...just don't get him drunk and fuck around. you'll love it at the time but hate everything in the end.

 

[Kyanimal]

He's obviously comfortable enough around You to just let Himself "Be" a Horny Young Guy! (Just like You!) It sounds like He is letting You know that it's "O.K." for You to be the same with/around Him! That is ... as long as "things" don't get "Homo"! No Kissing! No EMOTIONAL Involvement! Just two Guys doing what Guys, "Naturally", do!

It sounds like He TRUSTS You to not let "it" get around to anyone else. It sounds like He TRUSTS You to not let "it" get carried away, or "Mean" anything more than JUST Guys being Guys!

He's letting You know that it's "O.K." to PLAY! But ... "it's" JUST "Play"! Sounds like He's willing to not only let You SEE, but might also be willing to let You Touch! And, will most likely be willing (if not Hoping) to "Touch" back!

Relax! Make Yourself "available", too! No "Big Deal"! Have some beers. Whip it out. And, maybe, even suggest comparing "size" by holding "them" together!

Remember ... "It's" JUST "Sport"! "Only" Messin' Around! NOTHING "Serious", for Heaven's Sake! Just a "Male Thing"!

"It's" about having FUN! Nothing "More"! Drop Your Guard! Drop Your pants! And ENJOY "Goofing" (and Wanking) Off!!

And, of course, no matter what ...

Keep Smilin'!!
Chaz