Possibly too horny?

[FunDude]

This is really recent.. like over the past month.. I think I've become hornier than usual.. Sex has invaded in my sleep (with erotic visuals featuring me as a sex slave, which.. apparently, I didn't know I liked that so much, but I do..), my work, my thoughts..

IDK.. I'm just not used to the idea of sex going through my head more than maybe twice a day.. but now its like 20 times..

then when I take care of business.. I drink a cup of water..
and then i want to take care of business again..

its cutting into my sleep too.. cause i don't get tired..
i end up staying up till 5 or 6am..
then sleeping till noon..
then im off to tennis where again the thought crosses my mind again..

and then it stops when i remember about the time i caught my grandma and her exbf fucking in my bathroom..

im a virgin, will be 19 in two months, pre-law student, closeted, though i still manage to get asked out by boys or girls.. i mostly reject them.. i have issues.. i got bored of the two guys that i was in a relationship with really fast.. they tend to last anywhere from a week, to 3 weeks.

 

[LeoMikey]

I'd say you're normal. If you asked most guys, they are probably in the same boat. The fact that you're a virgin is one reason, it's always on your mind. But trust me, i'm 27 and have been having sex with guys since i was 15, the horniness NEVER goes away. So just enjoy it! Beat it until you're spent, as often as needed. Even if you've got a boyfriend, you'll still be jerking off.
Try to stop thinking about you're grandma, that could kill a Viagra boner in seconds flat. The fact that you got bored with the last two guys isn't a big deal. Lots of guys will come and go, or you might find "The One" quickly, who knows. Just keep looking. Why get involved with a guy you have no passion for? Now, you say you have "issues". Exactly what are they? Do you even know? Is there another reason you reject people aside from getting bored? If you are really having a hard time, talk to someone who can help. Your college or local hospital can refer you.
I think the majority of your problems stem from being in the closet. I've been there, and it can mess you up. You're also pre-law. That's stressfull, on top of being closeted. Why are you choosing that career? Unless you really feel a passion for it, why bother. Only you can know what to do, good luck. Oh yeah, when you do find a boyfriend, he's going to be VERY happy with how horny you are!

 

[LatinoSTAR]

its probably just a phase your body is going thru!

 

[FunDude]

I'd say you're normal. If you asked most guys, they are probably in the same boat. The fact that you're a virgin is one reason, it's always on your mind. But trust me, i'm 27 and have been having sex with guys since i was 15, the horniness NEVER goes away. So just enjoy it! Beat it until you're spent, as often as needed. Even if you've got a boyfriend, you'll still be jerking off.
Try to stop thinking about you're grandma, that could kill a Viagra boner in seconds flat. The fact that you got bored with the last two guys isn't a big deal. Lots of guys will come and go, or you might find "The One" quickly, who knows. Just keep looking. Why get involved with a guy you have no passion for? Now, you say you have "issues". Exactly what are they? Do you even know? Is there another reason you reject people aside from getting bored? If you are really having a hard time, talk to someone who can help. Your college or local hospital can refer you.
I think the majority of your problems stem from being in the closet. I've been there, and it can mess you up. You're also pre-law. That's stressfull, on top of being closeted. Why are you choosing that career? Unless you really feel a passion for it, why bother. Only you can know what to do, good luck. Oh yeah, when you do find a boyfriend, he's going to be VERY happy with how horny you are!

issue.. hmmm.. i get bored of people quick.. thats not bad? I've rejected people for random reasons.. im a tad bit shallow.. not only do they have to look good (in my eyes at least), but they have to be smart too.. Or.. I get bored and move on.. There is nothing wrong with that? Good. I didn't want to be called like.. bitch or something..

Is it common for guys to ask you to stay single for them after you've dumped them? Like 4 or 5 guys have said this to me, 3 of them i wasn't even involved with.. and i dont respond to it.. im just thinking like.. that sounds desperate on their part..

the law career for a few reasons.. i find contracts and history interesting.. i figured i could be a lawyer dealing with contracts.. they make tons of money. i love money.. but there also the political side to it as well.. i can very well end up in politics with a law degree.. but then again, having one could be used in so many ways.. i grew up thinking of it as the most versatile degree ever..

also my parents, who dont accept homosexuality have always said they wanted a lawyer in the family.. fine.. you got one.. however......... hes gay. it would force them to accept me. or at least it wouldn't hurt.. granted it may backfire really badly.. i plan on paying my parents back the money they invested into my college education whether they cut ties with me or not.

they already have my reading their contracts and thus far ive protected them from a few bad business ventures where the contract was going to screw them over.. it made me feel good..

plus, nothing says don't fuck with me like a nice shiney law degree..

at least in my opinion.

i prefer not to jack off often.. and.. at this point im so annoyed with relationships that i think i would much rather a fuckbuddy.. if they were as horny as i can be, that would be pretty damn awesome.. i probably wouldn't get bored.

i reserve the grandma memory for when im out in public... in the library.. at the mall, ect..

 

[Eternaldarkness]

LOL, your sleeping cycle and activities is exactly like me! I dont sleep until 5 or 6 am and I fucking love to play tennis (try to play everday.) Anyway, skip that for now and lets focus on your question.

I think you're just desperate, anxious, and curious. Horniness is what everyone experienced all the time. Consider frequent masturbation. Even though you said you don't like to jack off but, dude, not jacking off is like neglecting the fact that you're horny.

Ofcourse it is going to affect your sleep. Fuck, if I prefer not to masturbate for like a week or two, I'll have some fucking awesome erotic dreams too!

This is a point in your life where your body is thriving for some real actions... expect to be horny. Its just a natural things to do.

 

[Corny]

i'd say .. it's spring-time

 

[Ikaros]

I'm so glad I'm not the only perpetually horny guy. I thought this would calm down after age 25 but here I am almost 29 and I'm still horny as an 18 year old.

 

[Luka]

ummm, well i am always thinking about sex, in fact i have a rating system in my mind, and rate every guy who goes by me, haha. Im a horn dogger big time!

 

[FunDude]

LOL, your sleeping cycle and activities is exactly like me! I dont sleep until 5 or 6 am and I fucking love to play tennis (try to play everday.) Anyway, skip that for now and lets focus on your question.

I think you're just desperate, anxious, and curious. Horniness is what everyone experienced all the time. Consider frequent masturbation. Even though you said you don't like to jack off but, dude, not jacking off is like neglecting the fact that you're horny.

Ofcourse it is going to affect your sleep. Fuck, if I prefer not to masturbate for like a week or two, I'll have some fucking awesome erotic dreams too!

This is a point in your life where your body is thriving for some real actions... expect to be horny. Its just a natural things to do.

A tennis playing asian that has the same schedule as me?!?!!? :O
hawt.

I wouldn't say I'm desperate though.. If I were, I wouldn't be rejecting people left and right.. I still maintain I'm picky..

Then come home and jack off a few times..

 

[FunDude]

i cant find the edit button..

so im just gonna say..

this sucks.. my dad just caught me with dick in hand and pants off.. well.. kinda i had sheets over me.. i still had my gay barebacking porn open, but the laptop was turned to the side.. i wonder if he could tell when i was watching??? He seemed to just open the door, i got up to sit instead of lay, and said "hey" and he just left.. not saying a word.

then 2 seconds later my sister walks in to have me proof read her essay..

doh...

 

[KaraBulut]

Being "too horny" is a lot like being "too hungry". It's not the hungry that's the problem, it's the eating too much that's the problem.

Either you're going to have to get a grip on something besides your dick or you better get a lock on your door.