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post orgasm reaction

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came out to my sis as bi. played it safe.
i will try to make this discreet.
it could be that im not out yet.
i get this weird feel after sex loads of times. Like a post orgasm regret, i feel totally turned off of any sexual contact or intermacy. it doest last long but i still find kiss guys i like abit off. i felt really bad and really bad for the guy that iculdnt cuddle him afterwards. its not like i didnt love during.
it doesnt happen when i was with women.
even when alone and masturbating to guys, before im totally turned on at the thoughts of guys, but once orgasm same thing happens.
what r ur thoughts

like distance your self from the situation aswell. as im bi/pan i find i go to straight side, like thinking about women and what i did was not me that im really straight. totally turned off. happened today after left the room think im really straight im not bi, abit repulsed (feel horrible saying that) came back was my normal self. cuddled him silly.
 
hey i used to have this issue myself, i dont know how i came over it, but over time the feelings past. Maybe it was just my mind accepting who i am?
 
cake1234 said:
...Like a post orgasm regret, i feel totally turned off of any sexual contact or intermacy. it doest last long...
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On another site that I used to moderate that was focused on coming-out issues, there were quite a few threads where guys who were not out or who were in the process of coming out would complain about having a post-orgasmic regret sensation.

The common theme was two things- regret over a bad choice (e.g. getting drunk and having sex with some guy they just met) or feelings of shame/guilt connected to their feelings about being gay/being closeted.

In most cases, unless there were other reasons for the feelings (i.e. cheating on their wife, issues with religion), the post-orgasmic regret lessened after as they came out and accepted their sexuality.
 
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