I'm surprised I can't already find this topic anywhere in the forums. Seems to be quite the hot-button issue.
I have multiple partners, often of unknown status. Over the years guys have become increasingly aggressive about wanting me to fuck them bareback. It's pretty hard to resist that in the heat of the moment. Plus, I've had issues with condoms coming off or breaking, and one time a guy shot in my eye. Basically, if you're having a lot of sex, condoms really aren't enough.
After reading up on it this summer, I decided this would be the responsible thing for me to do. I decided the "Truvada Whore" label was pretty much sour grapes. It took a while--my primary care doctor (at Kaiser Permanente) didn't know what it was. She contacted Infectious Diseases, who told me to come in. Between my doctor waiting to hear back from them and the appointment date, it took about a month. The doctor said I was a good candidate, did all the tests, and I've been on it a couple of weeks with no noticeable side effects. Except I feel more secure in my sexual encounters.
So, if you're a typical single gay man, having a varied sex life and not consistent with condom use (let's face it, most guys aren't), you should really consider it. My co-pay is $25, but Gilead has a card you can get and they'll pay that for you. So it's free. You do have to go back for periodic labs, but that's a good thing as well. I'll be getting HIV tested a lot more often than in the past.
I thought I'd like to open up the discussion on this, see who else is doing it.
I have multiple partners, often of unknown status. Over the years guys have become increasingly aggressive about wanting me to fuck them bareback. It's pretty hard to resist that in the heat of the moment. Plus, I've had issues with condoms coming off or breaking, and one time a guy shot in my eye. Basically, if you're having a lot of sex, condoms really aren't enough.
After reading up on it this summer, I decided this would be the responsible thing for me to do. I decided the "Truvada Whore" label was pretty much sour grapes. It took a while--my primary care doctor (at Kaiser Permanente) didn't know what it was. She contacted Infectious Diseases, who told me to come in. Between my doctor waiting to hear back from them and the appointment date, it took about a month. The doctor said I was a good candidate, did all the tests, and I've been on it a couple of weeks with no noticeable side effects. Except I feel more secure in my sexual encounters.
So, if you're a typical single gay man, having a varied sex life and not consistent with condom use (let's face it, most guys aren't), you should really consider it. My co-pay is $25, but Gilead has a card you can get and they'll pay that for you. So it's free. You do have to go back for periodic labs, but that's a good thing as well. I'll be getting HIV tested a lot more often than in the past.
I thought I'd like to open up the discussion on this, see who else is doing it.


















