Question about LUBE?

[superboypr]

Me and my boyfriend have decided to add spice to our relationship. He has ask me if we can go anal, and I said yes. But, for my surprise that hurt like HELL!!!! Sice I have never exprienced it. Everytime we have sex we use condoms and before we started having sex we decided to get tested for all the STD's.

But, I've notice that my ass is very thight. We went to a sex store near his house and bought a bottle of lube water-based, but it has the warming effect and I don't like the burning that causes in my ass. He suggested that we buy a lube with relaxing effect, but I once read that benzocaine lubes can harm you and all that stuff. Soooo... the girl at the store told me that we can use Pjur* lube with jojoba extract. I did a little research about that ingredient and didn't find a lot of information.

Sooo... my question is: A silicone lube with jojoba extract is helpful when having anal sex???

Thanks in advance ;-)






P.D. I am well aware that pain is a natural thing and all that stuff, I'm just asking this because I wanna know if it will work when we have sex.

 

[KaraBulut]

The jojoba is a gimick. Not needed.

Silicone lube is an option- it doesn't dry out like water-based lubes. It's not as thick as other lubes though.

Never use warming lube for anal sex. It burns- you might as well use cinnamon.

If you can find Boy Butter in PR, it is good for beginners. Buy some to use with your boyfriend and buy a buttplug for practicing on your own.

 

[panda29]

The best lube that I found for anal is Gun Oil silicone lube !!

 

[mbamike]

I use a generic KY lube. Works great for me.

BTW, anal sex does not have to hurt. Buy yourself a buttplug. Wear it around the house until you can wear it comfortably for two hours. This will train your hole to accept cock and help you to relax more while having anal sex.

 

[raphael89]

Has he tried fingering you?

 

[superboypr]

Yeah! and sometimes hurt... maybe due to the warming lube and dur to the fact that I had never done anything anal before him

 

[AlmondMilk]

My friend swears that his boyfriend didn't feel any pain when they used Maximus. But I think you can only order it online.

http://www.edenfantasys.com/tp-landing-url/sex-lubricants/water-based/maximus?noredirect=1&gclid=CNOuv6iplqkCFYx95Qod3Erbtw

 

[Audio Tech]

P.D. I am well aware that pain is a natural thing and all that stuff, I'm just asking this because I wanna know if it will work when we have sex.

Actually, once you get used to it, anal sex doesn't hurt AT ALL and feels sooooo goood!

Try Gun Oil silicone lube, best I have found so far. Butt in the end.... you need to learn to relax.

 

[NewStart]

I have pjur. Works well.