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nickfamel

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I've never had sex with a guy. Ok, I've jacked off a few times in front of other guys, does that count? Anyway, I have a question. In just about every gay porn video I've watched, the bottom is rarely hard. He almost never gets off. I noticed this the other day when I was watching one video where the guys were face to face and the bottom was jacking off. The top asks, are you about to cum and the bottom answers yes. The top stops and wait for just a second then shoves his dick in balls deep and the bottom has an incredible orgasm. Gees, that was hot. Anyway, is it typical that the bottom is not hard? If you're not hard, it seems like it can't be much fun.
 
nickfamel said:
I've never had sex with a guy. Ok, I've jacked off a few times in front of other guys, does that count? Anyway, I have a question. In just about every gay porn video I've watched, the bottom is rarely hard. He almost never gets off. I noticed this the other day when I was watching one video where the guys were face to face and the bottom was jacking off. The top asks, are you about to cum and the bottom answers yes. The top stops and wait for just a second then shoves his dick in balls deep and the bottom has an incredible orgasm. Gees, that was hot. Anyway, is it typical that the bottom is not hard? If you're not hard, it seems like it can't be much fun.
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Porns aren't real life. There's a crew there, constant interruptions, hot lights, cameras, etc. That causes many guys' pps to shrink.
Plus, many times they are bottoming for cash, not because they enjoy it. Don't take ANYTHING you see in a porn as factual and real.
Fact is, if you enjoy it, you can't help but not to be hard.
 
Yea I can agree. Don't think that professional porn films are made because the actors want to have sex with each other. Filming in their case isn't sex. It is work. There are other things to think about too. Getting your prostate pounded can make the erection go down. doesn't mean you dont' like it or it doesn't feel good but you may lose your erection and may not even be able to cum. For many people it isn't about their pleasure but yours so not everyone needs to be hard or get off to get what they want from the encounter. Also in the porn world these days many of the guys getting fucked are gay for pay. I know being a bi dude it seems strange but many straight guys can't stay hard with a dude so they take it so they don't have to worry about it. So it isn't a single factor and certainly what you see in the pro stuff or on the web shouldn't be measure of real life fucking
 
Hey, hard or not, you can enjoy bottoming for sure. If you're having vanilla sex with a dude and the deal is mutual gratification (as opposed to dom/sub, service, role play, whatever) the deal is to jerk yourself off or the top jerks you off while his dick is up your ass....and you nutt like a motherfucker and it is awesome. As a bit more experienced bottom (well, ok a pig fuckslut) I am usually hard when I am penetrated and especially if it is takin a little bit to adjust to the guy bonin me.....but then I stop playin with myself and focus on the great feeling of gettin fucked up the ass....also, if I play with myself, I will shoot too soon, and just like a lotta guys, once that happens, it's over....and I can still have a great orgasm with our without the top's input (ha!) after he gets off....SO, fuck yeah, you can enjoy takin a dick up yer hole with or without bein hard.
 
Oh, bottoming can be great fun even if not hard; believe me. I love a good pulsating cock in my ass; and I love it when tops tell me that I certainly know how to tire a guy out. I guess you would say I am quite active when bottoming.

But often I will go soft when bottoming unless the top is paying attention to my cock. I am so focused on pleasing the top, that i don't focus on my own cock unless the top is.
 
I am thinking about my ass hole when i'm being fucked not my cock , some times its hard and some times its not and its got nothing to do with whether i'm havin a good time or not.
Most of the time i prefer not to cum via my cock when i'm being fucked because its like game over , whereas when i dont i can keep the erotacism alive for hours after ward .
If i do decide to go for a cock triggered orgasm my cock is full size instantly , but like i said i mostly just concentrate on my ass hole because i get thousands of times the pleasure from it.
 
iwantbig said:
I am thinking about my ass hole when i'm being fucked not my cock , some times its hard and some times its not and its got nothing to do with whether i'm havin a good time or not.
Most of the time i prefer not to cum via my cock when i'm being fucked because its like game over , whereas when i dont i can keep the erotacism alive for hours after ward .
If i do decide to go for a cock triggered orgasm my cock is full size instantly , but like i said i mostly just concentrate on my ass hole because i get thousands of times the pleasure from it.
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I woud agree that the pleasure of having cock in ass and feeling the pleasure of a good pulsating cock in there is beyond description. Plus as I mentioned in my post, I am in to pleasing the top who is fucking me. I love to watch the top's expressions as I clamp my ass muscles down on his cock or if I use my ass msucles to massage his cock as it is inside me :)
 
iwantbig said:
I am thinking about my ass hole when i'm being fucked not my cock , some times its hard and some times its not and its got nothing to do with whether i'm havin a good time or not.
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This. No more to add...
 
I am never hard while I am being fucked. Then if the top taps my prostate during the fuck, it gets even better. On occasion a little cum will ooze out.

A good top will suck and stroke my cock until I cum. This happens after he has already cummed during the fuck.
 
NW007 said:
Oh, bottoming can be great fun even if not hard; believe me. I love a good pulsating cock in my ass; and I love it when tops tell me that I certainly know how to tire a guy out. I guess you would say I am quite active when bottoming.

But often I will go soft when bottoming unless the top is paying attention to my cock. I am so focused on pleasing the top, that i don't focus on my own cock unless the top is.
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This. Also, sometimes I'm concentrating so hard on using my ass to pleasure my top, I'm not hard. Doesn't mean I'm not having a ball. Just not concentrating on my cock.
 
Im normally hard when Im getting fucked because the guy Im with now doesnt last long so I have to get off quick or else Im going to bed horny that night.

BUT if I were to be fucked for hours like I would prefer I probly wouldnt stay hard the entire time
 
I can only speak for myself. When I am getting fucked I am not always hard but trust me I cum like crazy usually when the guy fucking me cums
 
I am usually not hard when being fucked. I am concentrating on that hot guy fucking my ass and letting him dominate me in anyway he wants. Believe me, I am having fun!
 
corbin-fisher-acm-connor-fucks-cort-raw-013.jpghelix-studios-calvin-banks-tops-logan-cross-raw-019.jpg These 2 guys are getting what I call the "bliss fuck". They aren't hard, their concentration is on the fucking they are getting, but they are totally blissed out in sensation. When I'm getting screwed like this, you could yell that my car is on fire and I wouldn't budge. I've found that boners come and go when I'm taking it, and pretty much every guy I've fucked has gone soft at some point. It has nothing to do with not being into it. You want to know if a guy is into it? Look into his eyes, listen to the tone of his voice, the way he holds you, how great of a kisser he is. If you're uptight about going (or staying) limp while getting rammed, don't worry. Any top who has fucked a few guys is going to know it's normal. Getting the prostate "massaged" can give some guys a major boner, other guys might stay soft. When I'm taking it I can go from soft to painfully hard in no time, I just relax and go with the ride. There are few things as pleasurable as cumming while getting fucked, your rock hard dick just exploding like a fire hydrant. Try using a dildo or vibrator before you try a real dick. It will help you see what it's like, and teach you how to relax your sphincter to handle a fuck. You don't want to hook up with a hot guy, get all excited about him fucking you, then begging him to pull out because it hurts too much!
 
You don't have to be hard to enjoy the penetration, I simply love it, but I will jack my cock while being fucked, to get double the pleasure, then after I will shoot my load.
 
There have been times when I wasn't hard while getting fucked, but I'd guess 98% of the time I am. Not being hard doesn't make me enjoy getting fucked any less though...the pleasure, pain, tightness, etc. are all exactly the same.
 
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