Question For Guys Who Don't Get Fucked

[Crashdown]

Come on over tonight....I'll be more then happy to help you find it.

Nah. I'd rather have you to take me out and wine-dine-69 me.

 

[bulge]

I gues it depends on the guy. Some guys are extremely anal. Others aren't. I have no anal feelings at all, although I am 100% gay, but I discovered str8 guys with strong anal feelings. My G-spot are the balls and the perineum, but not the prostate.

 

[Lube]

Having a guy try to top me makes my mind scream "rape".

You sound like a lesbian-who-hates-guys describing a straight male.

Chill.

I have no interest in rimming, but my mind doesn't scream anything when someone mentions rimming. My mind just whispers "not interested."

 

[Lube]

Well then there's no point in his posting something so misleading.

 

[Lube]

The quote that "it sounds like rape" could just as easily come from some self-loathing homophobe who won't do anal because it makes him seem feminine. God knows we've seen enough posts like that.

Look, I'm sure being raped has life-long repercussions, but that doesn't give someone carte blanche to post ambiguous responses that could easily be misinterpreted. I had no idea he was raped. He didn't say it. I thought he was being dramatic. We have plenty of drama queens on this board.

 

[Kulindahr]

Well then there's no point in his posting something so misleading.

"Misleading"????

I was answering the question of why some guys don't like to bottom, don't want a cock in their ass. My answer would only be "misleading" if it didn't represent who I really am. So your little insult and epithet barrage was uncalled for, insensitive, and rude.

YOU "chill".

 

[Kulindahr]

The quote that "it sounds like rape" could just as easily come from some self-loathing homophobe who won't do anal because it makes him seem feminine. God knows we've seen enough posts like that.

Look, I'm sure being raped has life-long repercussions, but that doesn't give someone carte blanche to post ambiguous responses that could easily be misinterpreted. I had no idea he was raped. He didn't say it. I thought he was being dramatic. We have plenty of drama queens on this board.

Seems to me, dude, that you're the only one who misinterpreted. The question was why some of us don't want a cock in their ass. Someone posted something about his mental reaction, and I used that theme to post MY reason.

And even if it were an "ambiguous response that could easily be misinterpreted... so what? There's this thing called "free speech", and it means I don't have to go around trying to be considerate to every little wimp who's quick to whine about things and toss around baseless accusations.
And so what if I WAS "some self-loathing homophobe...." -- again, so what? It was still a legitimate answer to an honest question!

There's this other thing, called "communication" -- it can be really useful. In your case, it would have consisted of ASKING why the heck I have that response -- I got several PMs on that very subject! I highly recommend learning the skill.













If this seems harsh... GOOD!
It's supposed to -- to show the sort of reaction you had, only on a much calmer and restrained level. It's meant to be an example of reacting with emotion rather than reason... but even so, with restraint.




BTW: I recently had a heavy encounter that brought back some intense memories about my being victimized. As was said, I don't really need to keep reliving it, so let's move on -- and if my post sounds angry, that's part of it.

 

[Lube]

<The following post is addressed to Kulindahr, of course; not to The_Pianist!>

Let's pretend this is a forum for straight guys (or any/all guys).

Someone posts a thread, "Question for guys who don't like to hunt". And somebody comes on and posts "Guns make me think of murder." He posts it because his <insert family member> was killed by someone with a gun.

Now I ask you: How does that contribute to the discussion?

Does it really have anything to do--other than in the most peripheral way--with the question? Would everyone necessarily know that this guy's family member was murdered, and that's why he feels that way?

Now, don't get me wrong. I feel terrible for anyone whose family member has been murdered, or who has been raped.

But that isn't the issue.

In fact, it's more like thread hijacking, since it doesn't have anything directly to do with the thread.

That's all I have to say on this topic, for I fear that I may be accused of thread hijacking. I also don't want to inflame your emotions; that's not my goal, but I'm sure it's hard for you to look at this in a level-headed way. I know it would be for me. Sorry if I caused any misunderstanding.

 

[cynicus]

A vibrator? Shit, man, your MD is getting his kicks. My MD sticks a finger up there and simply feels about to see what the shape, size, and softness/hardness of the gland is. Now that I think of it, though, perhaps I will suggest a vibrator next time.

 

[texyboi]

I very seldom bottom...it has been like 5 years....but if I really am in love and care for a guy I will.....seems like they always ride me before we get to that...but last time I bottomed I loved it........now I'm getting horny....does anyone know where to buy vibrators?

 

[hotdog1846]

I very seldom bottom...it has been like 5 years....but if I really am in love and care for a guy I will.....seems like they always ride me before we get to that...but last time I bottomed I loved it........now I'm getting horny....does anyone know where to buy vibrators?

Yes ... in my bedroom.