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marky mark

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So my boyfriend and I have been together since June 2006. We started having sex about two months into our relationship and shortly thereafter started going bareback. We're both clean, and we felt it was alright.

Not until late this year, did we start to have a problem whenever I'd penetrate. I mean he's always had a really hard time taking my cock the first time I try to put it in. I go as slow as humanly possible, and I still need to pull out and try again. I know it's because I'm thick, so ok. No question there. My question is... even if he cleans out (which has been almost every time) I am always getting crap on my dick. Ya know, every once in a while it's no big deal... but it's getting to be a big turn off. A few times it's been... more than bearable.

Is it a possibility he has another problem going on? I don't know... it's only been the past few months. There's only been two times we've had sex and it was all hunky dory. (We only have sex maybe 2-3 days a month during the school year since I'm at college 9 months out of the year) *shrugs* :confused: I love the boy more than anything... it's just frustrating.
 
Yup - That can be a problem - remember where you are sticking your dick - because it has other uses besides fucking. Poop on the top's dick will happen - but you can minimize the situation. Have him douche and watch what he eats and you must also learn - that no matter what - that this will happen!
 
gatormonster said:
Yup - That can be a problem - remember where you are sticking your dick - because it has other uses besides fucking. Poop on the top's dick will happen - but you can minimize the situation. Have him douche and watch what he eats and you must also learn - that no matter what - that this will happen!
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well he does use a douche and cleans out if we are going to have sex or thinks we might and it still happens often...
 
Tell him to soak in a bathtub for a half hour or so

Maybe your so big and your reaching very very far inside his asshole and your finding treasures.

But if u don't like poop on your cock wear a condom
 
Douche not enough. Need 2 regular soap suds enemas each about an hour apart. That should do it.
 
It could be his diet.

It could be your size.

It could be his exercise routine.

It could be his cleaning routine.

Yet, I'd be very cautious, when it comes to frequent enemas and in particular to soap enemas as these tend to mess up the colon flora and cause some real problems.

I am sure that the last word you really want to here is a 'condom', yet at times, it is the best of all solutions.

SC
 
Wouldn't *ever* use a soap enema.
 
What I do is use an ear bulb, fill it water and clean out that way. I do that about two or three times.

Then I will get in the shower and finger myself to get anything else out.


Another thing I would suggest is that after every time you have intercourse and you have climaxed, have him go to the bathroom to gently push out the excessive lube. I dont know about everyone else but when I bottom (which is pretty much every time) I feel a build of some sort inside. Which is perfectly normal, its the natural lubrication your anus has. Getting that out will also help.
 
marky mark said:
thanks, I had a hunch it could be his diet.
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Yes it may be his diet, but it may also be that he isn't digesting as well as he used to, possibly because his "good" bacteria levels are depleted for some reason.

Have him try to boost them with supplements he can get from a pharmacy. I think they are called probiotics in your parts. Typically you should see an improvement after a few days.

If that doesn't help, then another possibility is that he is developing lactose intolerance. He should try to avoid milk and milk products for a few weeks to see if there is any change.
 
My partner of 4 years has a huge, thick cock and rarely gets crap on it after fucking me bareback. I never use enemas so I think it comes down to diet and bowel rhythm.

To address the diet issue, get him to try natural yoghurt (good bacteria = healthy digestive system) which I have every day, as well as lots of fresh fruit and veg, including nuts and seeds.

The other tip I have is for him to try and get into a daily bowel rhythm so that he is going to the bathroom at times when you normally wouldn't want to fuck. E.g. we tend to fuck in the afternoon and/or evening, so I ensure that my bowel movements are in the morning... this seems to work for me without a problem.

BTW if it is a real turn-off for you, try having sex in the shower. You will not even notice the crap on your cock!

Good luck - and have fun!
 
I can relate. Anal sex is occasionally going to be a little messy. If you are going to fuck, it is going to happen sooner or later, despite the best precautions.

If it is happening all of the time, your boyfriend needs to make some changes. There have been some good suggestions, although I would agree that soapsuds enemas would be a very bad idea. They are very irritating to the colonic mucosa.

The problem may be his "douching" technique. How is he going about it? Fleet-type enemas that you can buy in a drugstore contain a sodium phosphate laxative solution. They are fine if you use them for their intended medical purpose - which is to relieve occasional constipation or prepare for a medical exam. It is not a good idea in my opinion to use them to prepare for anal sex. I have learned the hard way that they often have lingering laxative effects which kick in at the worst possible moment. The biggest and most emabarrasing mess that I ever created for a top was about an hour after douching with a Fleet enema. I still cringe.

When I feel like I am unclean or not empty, I douche with a squeeze bulb adult rectal syringe. You can purchase it at most pharmacies or buy it online. I fill it with plain tap water about body temperature and squeeze it inside. I think it holds about 8 ounces of water. I repeat a couple of times until the water evacuated is clear. I have used this technique for years with great success. And, my boyfriend is really picky about cleanliness. It is very important not to use too much fluid. Less is better. All you are trying to do is irrigate the rectal vault. Using too much water only serves to loosen things up higher in the colon. That can result in a much bigger mess than not douching at all.

Your boyfriend may also have some medical issues like chronic constipation or incomplete evacuation. Only a doctor can diagnose those. Inabililty to completely evcuate the rectum could explain his being "dirty" most of the time. It wouldn't hurt for him to ask his doctor to check that out.
 
Do you guys do anal without a condom? doesn't that get you urinary tract infection?
 
Does he have any digestive symptoms? Bloating, frequent bowl movements, sudden shifts from constipation to diarhoea, abdominal cramps (on the left)? If so, he could have irritable bowel syndrome (IBS), which can leave sufferers with 'incomplete' bowel movements, leaving some crap behind.

Different things work for different IBS sufferers, as it is set off by different foods and stress conditions in different people, so if it is this he will need to try stepwise elimination of some foods and inclusion of others over time. There are also some herbal and pharmaceutical options that can help to stop the cramping (which is caused by a disruption of the peristaltic motion in the gut and colon).
 
Condoms are great and safe and can be lubed up... I think anal sex isn't as nasty as everyone makes it out to be. But if your gonna go bareback I would say try to shit beforehand if you have to or clean yourself out.

What do I know, I'm a virgin but I'll have mine wrapped every time then i don't need to worry about a shitty encounter. lol and drink lots of water weekly.
 
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