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Question to straight men about a guy at the gym

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i have no clue where to put this so sry if its in the wrong cat

OK. IM a bi 21 year old. i like to have sex with girls but if the right guy comes along i wont say no lol. i like to work out alot and at my gym there is this guy that always looks at me. I think this guy is hot. I wanna know why is he looking at me

1. He just wants to see what im doing
2. he looks back at me since im looking at him
3. he likes me

if im looking at him and then he turns to look at me i always turn my head ( just reflex) so my question is how do i find out what that looks mean. i try to "follow" him at the gym and work next to him or where i could get a good view of him. sometimes he works out next to me. so im lost

sry if this does not make scense i cant really explain it and ( sry for grammer and spelling)
 
Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

I honestly don't know. This hot guy at the gym gave me a look but it didn't happen frequently or else not that I know of. I only noticed it once but I wouldn't know what to make of it at all.
 
Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

what type of look does he give you? And how long are the periods of him looking at you..glances, a couple of seconds? More deets!
 
Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

Something like this is always really hard to figure out. I would say ask him to spot you sometime. Even if you only end up saying "thanks dude", it does break the ice. Maybe next time just say hi. Let him take it from there. Chances are, even he might not know why he is looking at you.

There is a guy at my gym that I thought was hard to figure out. He is young, built, and hot. He also (for what it is worth) acts very straight. But more than once when his locker was near mine, he would start chatting with me. Sometimes it was right after he took a shower, and he would be standing there buck naked, with his dick hanging out, just talking to me. I've been in the shower with him twice and both times he took the shower head opposite mine. Whenever I would turn around and face out, he was always facing me, washing his dick.

Now I couldn't figure this out for the longest time. I have since seen him talking to other guys in the locker room, and I think he is just a real friendly guy, with no inhibitions, very comfortable with nudity, and probably unaware that his actions could be misinterpreted.
 
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ok more details. he usually works out by himself, sometimes the looks are long sometimes short one time his lip moved i dont know if it was a "smile" or what and i have it in my mind that he is straight so every time he looks at me i turn a way or what not as a reflex because i dont want him to think im looking at him but i do want him to know im looking at him lol i cant really explain it.
The looks he gives me is just looks like he just looks at me like today i was doing curls he walked past me and looked at me but then again i always look at him so he might be just looking back thinking why is this kid looking at me lol

this guy is about late 20 early 30's i say im really bad with age maybe a lil older i dont know the oldest is mid 30's if that

this has been going on for some time and i never saw him in the locker room only on the floor
 
Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

It's not hard to engage in conversation with other guys at the gym, but don't be creepy about it. I've found that a good, non-threatening opener is to ask a question or make an observation about their workout routine. Most guys are happy to talk about their workouts.

It can be something like "How do you do that without hurting your back? It kills mine." Not only does it break the ice, I've gotten some good workout advice from it.

I haven't hooked up with any, but that's not really my intention. If you think he might be interested, just make your approach natural and not sexually suggestive. If the conversation takes off, you can change course then.
 
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I know it might be hard, but try not to "look" at him. Just from time to time glance around the gym. While you're looking around, try to notice if he is looking at you. It is one thing to accidentally make eye contact. Most straight guys will look away. Straight guys usually won't continue to look at another guy unless they think something is wrong (you staring at them, snot hanging out of your nose, etc ) If you find him looking at you when you are not looking at him, I think he might have an interest. If he is older and if he is out, I would think he would try to make the first move. But I could be wrong.
 
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Every time you notice him looking, smile and nod your head or make some gesture of acknowledgement such as a wave or thumbs up, what ever is natural for you. Being a child of the 1960s, I would sort of give a combination of the two finger "peace bro" and a wave. Be sure to smile every time. If he is interested, he will let you know if he thinks you are friendly.
 
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Yeah- just say Hi sometime !! Can't make anything bad out of that !! get on equipment closer to where he is -- if he starts a convo - great -
(if you wanna be really creepy - follow him to the locker room and go where he goes - to the showers, etc.. hahahahhaahah see who gets hard first !!
 
Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

bw92116 said:
Next time he looks at you, quickly reach in your shorts and "adjust" your goods, but then take your hand out immediately. Watch to see how he reacts.
Click to expand...

i vote this!
 
Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

maybe mimic his gym activities and see.

If he do sit ups, you do sit ups.
If he go to the shower, you go to the shower.
 
Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

The guy you're talking about sounds like me, but older. Lol.

There's a really cute guy at my college's gym who works out later (8-10 pm), and whenever I go I can't help but just watch. But whenever he returns my looks I just melt and look away.

I wish I had more courage, he probably thinks I'm a creep.
 
Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

Man, just smile at him and say "Hey" as you pass. Try that for a couple of sessions

If you get no change from it, you'll know he's not focusing on you and is probably just looking around.

-d-
 
Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

ok thank you guys i will try what you have told me and will let you know the outcome. i think it would be so funny if the guy is gay or bi or straight but he comes on this website and he was reading about this. lol
 
Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

Well it might mean something or it might not...I'm a people-watcher myself so Ill often look at everyone: girls, guys, ugly, pretty, hideous...whatever doesn't matter. I like to know what others do with their lives.

At the gym, everyone probably thinks I'm bi...
 
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Like others said, at the very least just SMILE at him when he looks at you.

If he immediately looks away, you have your answer. Straight and scared of any attention from other men.

If he smiles back, it's a positive sign but not conclusive, just could mean he's nice, not necessarily gay. But it's a start and you can then at least start talking to him!
 
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Everyone gave "helpful" advice...The important thing is to drum up conversation...if you don't eventually talk to the guy then you both will continue with the 'stares' forever...

Don't wait for him to talk to you first. You talk to him first and do it more and more every time you see him...Then one day you need to ask him if he wants to go for drinks or something...

be natural, be friendly and he'll respond..
 
Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

Thank you everyone and i got an update. Today i kept following him and i smiled and he kept looking at me. he went into the locker room so i followed him he went into the steam room i went into the sauna. a few kin later he was in the sauna. we both smiled. we were silence for a few mins and just as i was about to say hi he gets up. ( we both had towels around us) fixes his towel and i looked and i could see what looked like to be a "boner" he went to the showers and then i followed him i looked and he had a huge thick dick. i was in heaven. i went into the shower across from him. ( the showers are set up wit h2 showers on both sides and a curtain to close if you want to so you have your own private shower. his curtain was open so was mine.) i looked at my dick and i dont know if it was nerves or anything but it shrunk like i could not see it lol i was so embarrassed i looked away. i was yelling at my dick why now why get really small now. i turn on the hot water played with it for a while nothing still small. so i did not want to turn around and look at him because his dick was so big and at the moment my dick was so small lol he went into the bathroom part of the locker room and he was looking in the mirror and the shower i was in you could see the mirror and if you are looking in the mirror you could see the shower i saw him look, so the end of story is that i never said hi to the guy because of nervs i guess and my dick bailing out on me but i did see his dick and i dont know if he was just huge or if he was semi but it was a nice view.
 
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sry for the grammar and spelling mistakes was just to excited when i was typing it
 
Re: Question to straight men about a guy at the gy

Dellboy....How old are you?

To be honest I think at this point the guy likes the fact that you're following him around the gym like a "puppy"...

STOP doing that. Either introduce yourself to the guy or simply stop creeping him out.

If the guy is a "Pretty boy" then he takes pleasure in having a guy stare at him and follow him from room to room panting..That probably builds his ego more than saying a WORD to you...

If you're unable to get up the nerve to say "Hello", then move on with your GYM exercises. The last thing you want to become is another man's shadow. Especially when the guy is PRETENDING to not notice you're looking at him and following him...
 
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