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Raging war inside of me

I'd been playing that tug o war game for let see few years. I'm just myself. I don't see myself going to the gay side completly
 
mr_piggyman said:
I don't know what my heart wants, but know I just want to fit in. I don't see myself fitting in neither group of gays or bisexuals. It feels like I am in a group of my own.
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You are still dealing with the realization that you are bisexual. It will be like that for while, hell I'm still going through it and I realized this nearly a decade now. Follow your heart, and fall for whom to feel the most comfortable with male or female. ..|
 
Just dont even label yourself! Just say this to yourself "I like what i like, and that's that, I'm not gay, I'm not bi, I'm just me".....saying that kind of thing will work...well it did for me...so hopefully it will for you too! :D (*8*)
 
First; Do NOT lable yourself ... as mentioned above . You are a SEXUAL BEING with Sexual feelings and Desires ...
The inner strugle that you are having is quite common . BUT; if you take away the "Lable" , and just be yourself .. you will FIND yourself much sooner and do what you need to do for YOU ....
Ya' know ; You will NEVER be happy doing or being what others want you to ; so don't worry about them .... Make yourself HAPPY and You'll find someone to be Happy with ......
 
piggyman said:
I didn't know why I am feeling this way. I feel like there's a war being fought inside of me, where my bisexual half and my gay half are consently battling against each other for dominants. I know I have more gay tendencies, so I didn't understand the struggle I am feeling.

Its like tug of war, where my gay side and bisexual side are pulling at each other.

I have been at peace with myself for a few weeks, ever since I came out to my sister. Just recently, I started feeling this way.

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I guess being gay or bi are just labels. What does it change wether you are 'categorized' under one or the other? This being said, I know it can be a big deal in society, but try not to lose too much sleep over it.
 
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