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Random questions...Cheating and phone boning

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If it's a committed relationship in that you have agreed you're not seeing other people, then it should be no sex of any kind. Phone sex, internet sex--these things are cheating if the two people are supposedly exclusively seeing each other. The individuals within the relationship need to discuss their boundaries and their comfort zones as far as what is acceptable vs. what is not.
 
It depends upon the couple and how they set boundaries. Some would be fine with it and some wouldn't. If it's your partner your speaking of perhaps it would be hot listening in, or taking turns. I guess the bottom line is if one person is uncomfortable then it's not OK. Keep in mind that people can change their minds. The joy of bring gay is that each couple can make there own set of standards. We can change roles and have fun with our sexuality in a way that doesn't fit straight convention.
 
Cheating is a violation of a promise. Whatever that promise may be. There is no cheating if you end the promise before you hurt the guy.

There is no excuse for cheating.
 
I don't think mutual masturbation over the phone should be done with someone else other than your partner (if you're in an exclusive closed relationship) but that's just me.
 
It's all in the attitude. If you do something sexual with another guy, and you don't want your partner to find out, then you're cheating. It doesn't matter what that thing is - full-on sex, camming, phone sex, posting pics online, or just holding hands.

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G-Lexington said:
It's all in the attitude. If you do something sexual with another guy, and you don't want your partner to find out, then you're cheating. It doesn't matter what that thing is - full-on sex, camming, phone sex, posting pics online, or just holding hands.
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What a great way to put it. Unless we're throwing a surprise party or giving a gift, if we don't want our partner to know about it then something's not right. I guess unless you're in an open relationship and there's an understanding that you don't share details.
 
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