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relationship question

GL said:
this relationship, such as it is, will not end well.

as others have pointed out the op has trust issues and the bf is a leech.
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These sort of relationships seem to drag on and on with ever increasing drama until the using party moves on. In this case age is brought up but the guy could be the same if he was the same age. As others have mentioned someone gets hurt and shit gets bust up and more times then not the cops come in which case everyone gets busted so the court can settle it because the police are not.
There are no shortage of users out there be they 22 or 42. The club I was at was loaded with them last night.
There's not enough info on this relationship to have a fair sense of whats going on. For instance what does the partner do all day? Look for work, recover from hard night partying, clean up & take care of the property, cook, school/training? How does he contribute. Is he ill? Or is the op really thinking that while hes at work the guy is fucking around on him now.
Failure to do anything other than sit around & sponge is the classic boy toy but like I said it is really amazing to see a wide range of guys of all ages who act like this, maybe when they were 22 but have no problem to do this at 42 either.

A friend of mine is in fact 42 and does this very thing only the age of the guys he goes after are in the upper 50 s and beyond. When they start putting rules on him once they take the bait he backs off and disappears. Last night his latest victim came to the bar looking for him. Later he showed up and told the guy he will not be controlled and his love struck suitor stormed out very hurt.

On the other hand it is to bad that there is so much jealously amongst gay guys. It can be difficult to have any old friends, lovers or not because everyone fears they are being cheated on. I've come to the point where I won't hang out with a single of a coupled relationship even though I may have more in common with one over the other because its just a hassle, don't need it. While I do understand the logic and understanding its delicate territory. It has always been much easier to be friends one on one with straight guys, married or single where sex isn't the pressure point
 
He's immature and you're [STRIKE]controlling[/STRIKE] immature. You both need to be in a few more relationships before you start calling someone your partner.
 
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