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I lied about my age to hook up with a hotty that-s only into guys between his age-25. I know age shouldn't matter, but should :^ohonesty?
 
Honesty should always matter.

After all, if you lie about your age, how can anyone trust you when you say you're negative, etc?


That being said, I personally wouldn't mind if you were 27 if I was already ok with the way you look.
 
If you're 27 and saying you're 25, I don't think that's such a big deal. But when you're 35 (or 45!) and claiming to be 25... even if you look young, trust me, it shows and looks desperate
 
So what - 2 years, who cares. It is not like he was expecting a 25 year old and then Methuselah showed up.
 
meh..I think you should have told the truth bud..if your willing to lie about something so trivial as 2 years...what else would you be willing to lie about...
 
ive met someone offline once who was actually in his 40's but said he was in his 20's.......i was sooooo pissed off and left. So dont lie just to get into a hot guys pants!
 
Should have been honest about your age and then let him decide. If he turned you down, there's plenty of others out there for you.
 
come clean and get it over with - if u see him again

can understand the temptation but

trust is kinda important

very important
 
i'm always up front about age. it doesn't matter to me but it does to lots of guys. oddly though, i find the older i get, the younger the guys are who are chasing me.
 
It's funny because the same is happens with me. I'm 30 years old and the ones who are chasing me or trying to take me out on little dates are the ones who are 18, 19, 20... haha. It's a little awkword, but flattering. But yeah, every relationship has to start with honesty.
 
Luka said:
ive met someone offline once who was actually in his 40's but said he was in his 20's.......i was sooooo pissed off and left. So dont lie just to get into a hot guys pants!
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Similar thing has happened to me. It was really shocking and sucks, I would never lie in my profile. But I guess I'm just really nice, cuz I didn't leave. :(
 
if you already met and he didn't notice the difference then i'd say it wasn't a big deal in this particularly if this was just a hook up. generally i would say though honesty is the better thing to do you don't want someone saying they are 20 when they are 30 and then meet and it's obvious.
 
I understand that you want that person and they are looking for a particular age, but if they aren't interested in you just because of your age then don't bother meeting them. So what I am saying is, is Yes honesty is key.

I have actually been through something very similar to this recently. I have been friends with this one guy for about 4 going on 5 years now. I had just turned 18 in 2005. Him and I had met up on the boardwalk where I live, he asked me my age but I didn't want to give 18 because I really wanted to get with this guy and I didn't know how he would react to 18 so I added a couple of years and said I was 20. To this day he thinks I am 25 now which I am only 22.

Reason why I mention this is because the other day him and I went to a bar that is open 24/7 to get something to eat and a drink. When the waitress asked for my ID he decided to get all cute and mention to her my age which then she replied saying no his ID says he is 22, uses the year and everything. I felt like a complete asshole, which I am for lying to him, I didn't think that his and mine friendship would last this long, but it has. He asked me what that was about and I told him that it was my brother in laws, brother's id because I had lost mine, and since i knew we were going to a bar I had to get an id.. Another lie ontop of another just to make sure our friendship maintains and not be broken over a lie that has been going on for 5 years, but how am I to know how he would react if I told him. I think he would be fine with it, but deceived on how I lied to him and how I hadn't told him yet. So as you can see, lieing can ruin something that might be in your future and the lie will continue to grow. But I am honest about everything else that I talk about, just the age is a lie.
 
When "hooking up" why should the truth matter?

All those 7" are really 5.5".

All the VGL, are just average looks, or less.

All the HWP are 20# overweight.

Etc. Etc.

Gee, you fudged a few years, big deal.
 
Um, did you already hook up?Because if he's already approved of you he's unlikely to care about 2 years. And he may think it's cute that you thought him worth fudging for. Right now at the beginning you can prolly play it off pretty well as a silly little thing and you'll come off as honest for coming clean instead of the creepy insecure person you'll come off as if you wait a long time and he finds out some other way.
 
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