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Relationships while both in the closet?

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Has anyone here tried this? had a relationship while both you and your partner were in the closet? Me and a couple of friends were talking about how hard it must be to pull off, if you guys have how did you meet? how did you keep it a secret and the most scandalous part....were you caught? A few years ago i thought about doing this but decided against it because i didnt have it in me to keep up the relationship. i always wish i had though so what about you guys anyone do what i didnt?
 
lol im talking about personal experiences lol but i didnt think of that lol
 
Kind of hard to keep a relationship in the closet.

Best be "friends" until that time comes when you no longer care what others think - just my two cents.
 
No i havent but its what im looking u know that person that is ur best freinds out and anoung friends and family and more that jusat ur best friend at other times ugh i find it so hot and a turn on
 
I know two lesbians like this. They have a facade of "best friends". After a while, once you know them, you...kind of just know (they actually told me not too long ago). It becomes an open secret. On the plus side it makes coming out much easier because no one will give a flying fuck in the end because, well, everyone kind of already knows.
 
I did this for almost two years. In retrospect, it was both incredibly easy and mind-numbingly difficult; just like the relationship. We were friends for years. It was one of those "late teen" things- you know, when you're old enough to know better but too horny all the time to give a fuck.

He had a girlfriend who (very) conveniently lived two blocks away from me at the time, so he always had an alibi if anyone ever asked him where he stayed over the night. It wasn't an "open" relationship, more she was his beard that he actually had to sleep with so she wouldn't suspect anything either. I remember there were several occasions where we slipped up around our mutual friends and probably outted ourselves, like there was one time I called him "babe" out loud when we were sitting down at a friend's dinner and apparently one time, at a party, he got drunk and was stumbling around asking where I was continuously for over an hour, when I wasn't at the party and he and everyone else there damn well knew that already. The only time I ever had someone ask if there was something "more" going on between us was our closest mutual friend, a male, who I'm almost positive did know, but we both denied it like it was our jobs. I came out at the end of it because he wouldn't. He still hasn't and probably never will, but to each his own I guess.

I totally regret the whole thing now. I learned nothing from that relationship that I didn't already know. Except for the hundreds of orgasms and the months of heartache it gave me, it was pointless. I destroyed a friendship with someone I had been close to for ages, and now I see nothing but the worst in him.
 
I didn't know them well but was once acquainted with some people that took it to the extreme. 2 gay guys married 2 lesbians to keep everything secret. They would double date often and basically lived with their same sex lovers most of the time. The secret eventually got exposed when one of the lesbian's mothers found out and had a complete breakdown over it. She told several people who honestly didn't believe her at first but eventually the big lie came crashing down.

I moved and lost touch with all of them. Don't know where they are today or if they stayed married. It's been like 12 years ago.
 
I lost my first boyfriend to this, we met at gay.com chat room and eventually met in a local mall. I would go over to his house on occasion. He was out to his friends, but not family, so that helped but the last time I saw him was after his brother caught us making out. After that he never talked to me. I kinda think there are other reasons that he didn't want to see me anymore, but I can only assume that he didn't want to risk being outed by me.
 
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