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Responding to a ring - urgent help please!

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Hey guys,

So I need some urgent help. I've been dating this guy for two weeks. Today, he sent me an email with a link to buy a ring, asking me for an answer.

I know this is such a stupid question, but I have to ask. What is he proposing? I can't imagine what other message he's trying to send, unless this is some grand joke, or there's something in the gay world that I don't understand.

Obviously, since we've known each other for only two weeks (Yes! Only 2 WEEKS!) there's no way I can commit to anything.

So my question is, am I misinterpreting something. And if he's really proposing something or another, how can I decline without him thinking that I don't like him?

Thanks all.
 
it's not very romantic--and waaayyyy too soon
 
I say send him an onion ring lol.

But seriously, this guy is probably obsessed with you. I would break it off with him ASAP, and be a little aware of whats going on with him (i.e. him trying to contact you) afterwards.
 
Any guy who wants to buy you a ring after two weeks probably wants you to wear it in your nose with a chain attached to it.

Methinks its a bit soon.
 
Thanks guys. I asked him. It was indeed supposed to be an engagement ring. What's he thinking? Is this even normal? Now I'm actually a little scared.
 
Yeah, that seems soon. Sometimes when people are excited about someone else, they end up thinking in very "absolute" terms.

Don't know what you know about this guy, what you think about him, but it seems clear that your level of excitement about him is not the same as his about you. this, just by itself, suggests trouble.

What do you NOT know about him that you think you need to know?
 
Is he hott? lol its all that matters, haha.... no but seriously, if he asks you to marry him over the internet, id be like, hell no!!
 
People do strange things on Valentine's Day.

If he's serious, I would definitely question his emotional maturity (not to mention his sanity.)
 
Run. Quick. Far away. Run.
 
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