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Revenge (really angry)

i'm not pretending, i'm bi, and even if it sounds presumptious i really really like my life. everything's going perfect, and all works well. i'm not willing to risk that, and i don't feel the need to come out. i know you'll say my true friends wouldn't care, but i'm very social, and know lots of people, and i like that, having my best friends, and other friends scattered everywhere. i don't want anything to change. except maybe find love.

and it's not like i have a relationship with him, i haven't ever spoken to him
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Oh heavens...

You sound like you're 14, not 21..... You don't want anything in your life to change and yet you are the one totally responsible for any changes that will now result from your 'indiscretion'.

It was your choice as a responsible adult about who you told about your penchant for men, bi or gay...whatever. If you are so in the closet, why tell someone you hardly even know????

All I can say, is get ready girl, because unless you can silence a hundred people, you've outed youself and it is going to be dished up by every person who gets their hands on the story. The best appproach is to at least act like you don't care, because the more you fight it, the more delicious the gossip will be.

I can also pretty much guarantee that until you become a more mature and honest person, you will not find love.....you may discover infatuation or passion or something else you mistake for love, but from where I'm sitting, it won't even remotely look like true love.

..but best of luck with all this. A few years from now, you'll hopefully be able to look back on this and laugh.
 
Maybe I'm too young to answer this question, but I say get revenge anyway possible short of committing a crime or midemeanor, or getting your ass thrown in jail. Sorry if I'm not helpful :(
 
Heartbreak said:
Maybe by him doing that you'll live a more tranquil life,you never know.
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Seconded. Revenge over this is nonsense. Revenge in general is nonsense. He had no place in telling anyone sicne yout old him not to, but at the same time, he was a stranger and if coming out was such an issue, you shouldn't have disclosed that information.

Seee what changes, and if nothing changes, it may be a sign that coming out won't change things as much as you believe, or maybe you'll find that the Mexican aristocracy isn't as wonderful a group of people to be around as you thought.
 
I came out to him, because he had pictures of a guy i knew and i really liked, and i didn't tell him the first day, we talked lots of days, and after a while it became obvious i wasn't pushing him away, plues i had been drinking twice. Then when i found out who he was, i got mad, but kept talking to him, so i wouldn't seem rude. I learned i can't trust people on the internet the hard way. Coming out is not as easy for everyone,

All this got me thinking, the gay scene at least where i live is not cool. It's just vicious and jealous people, trying to fuck or destroy any hot or nice guy. I just want to forget about this past year, and go back in. I'm bi, and still in time to do damage control. I already sent the message I was just confused for a while, but no longer am. I'm gonna be straight from now on. It's just to mucho for me to bear with.

Thanks everyone for the advices, now i just need help trying to forget the only guy i have ever had feelings for. For what i understand he once had the same problem i'm having now. And he went really back into the closet. Well, I'll tell you if i'm succeeding, thanks again.
 
wow.

Back in the closet. Just like that. Because you can do damage control. And get your old life back. And forget about the past year.

wow.
 
kyless85 said:
I came out to him, because he had pictures of a guy i knew and i really liked, and i didn't tell him the first day, we talked lots of days, and after a while it became obvious i wasn't pushing him away, plues i had been drinking twice. Then when i found out who he was, i got mad, but kept talking to him, so i wouldn't seem rude. I learned i can't trust people on the internet the hard way. Coming out is not as easy for everyone,

All this got me thinking, the gay scene at least where i live is not cool. It's just vicious and jealous people, trying to fuck or destroy any hot or nice guy. I just want to forget about this past year, and go back in. I'm bi, and still in time to do damage control. I already sent the message I was just confused for a while, but no longer am. I'm gonna be straight from now on. It's just to mucho for me to bear with.

Thanks everyone for the advices, now i just need help trying to forget the only guy i have ever had feelings for. For what i understand he once had the same problem i'm having now. And he went really back into the closet. Well, I'll tell you if i'm succeeding, thanks again.
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This whole post is so wrong on SO MANY LEVELS!!! In any case, it's your life and if you want to live a lie for the rest of your life and deny your own feelings, then that's what you gotta do.

You can tell yourself you're straight all you want to, but it doesn't make it so.

I wish you the best........ in whatever you do. Just remember one thing....

"The truth will set you free." You shouldn't be trying to stomp it out like a forest fire.
 
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