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Scared about doing sexual things with guys? Tips?

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Ok I have met 4 guys so far on craigslist. I gotten head 4 times, and given head 3 times.

I havent done it in awhile, and looking to do it again. I am just starting to think, is oral very risky? I never use condoms for oral and neither did the guys I blew. Should I stop? Condoms ruin it for me. Can I get stds form just oral only?

For instance, right now there is a good looking guy I met on craigslist saying he wants to blow me and he swallows. Isn't swallowing risky? Should I avoid people who would even attempt that in case they have done that with others?
 
swallowing no more risky that finding sex on craigslist
 
CottonBolus said:
Most definitely, you can get STDs from oral.

You can get hepatitis B from oral, and I'm not certain but maybe even hepatitis C.
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so, pretty much dont do anything with guys ever, unless i know them for many years. or else ill catch all these fuckin diseases. god being gay is so risky wish i was straight
 
Absolute rule: if you are uncomfortable with what is proposed to you, don't do it...


Also, the only advice my father gave me about sex: if it hurts, you are doing it wrong!
 
Whoa, you need to educate yourself about STDs and HIV. Having sex with anyone is about managing risks and determining the amount of risk you are willing to take to have sex. Read the Stickies on this forum and do some of your own research.

Here is a website to help you with HIV which is my greatest concern since I am a total bottom. It is The Body: The Complete HIV/AIDS Resource
 
be careful. I got gonorrhea in the back of my throat from swallowing a random guy I met on Grindr. So yes, you can catch a STD from oral..
 
I agree with what mbamike said... For me, it is important to determine who exactly is taking the risk from the sexual act and make the decision from there.

If a guy wants to suck your cock and swallow your load, the risk to you is pretty minimal, unless he's a biter! :-)
 
There is not ONE case of anyone catching HIV from properly using a condom for oral and anal sex. Condoms really DO work when used properly.

You sound a bit overly paranoid. If you want to have sex, please do! There is nothing wrong with it. Just use a lubricated latex condom EVERY time for anal sex with water based lubricant and, preferably, condoms for oral sex as well (HIV can very very rarely be passed orally). Oral sex with a condom feels just as good and is less messy.

If you consistently use condoms for both oral and anal sex with those whose status are positive or are unsure (WITHOUT slip-ups) you will stay negative.
 
If I'm having anonymous sex, it has to be really safe.
Not to say that I haven't, when I did I was as careful as I could, using my eyes and nose to ensure the dick was clean.
Head with condoms isn't great, but better than jackin off. Suckin a wrapped dick is better than not suckin a dick

You can catch a lot of infections from giving and receiving head. Be comfortable with going to the doctor and what you did if have any strange sensations 2-7 days after. They've heard it all before.
 
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