Scared of Sex

[parisienne]

So this is starting to get me down a bit. I have a PE problem, I get really turned on really quickly and I shoot far too quickly, I can go again after but its putting me off taking guys to bed as I'm really worried about not lasting. I like bottoming too but I need to be totally relaxed with a guy I trust so that's a bit into the knowing someone for me.

Thing is right now I'm not hooking up with any guys because I dont want to be a crap lay. Help :-/

 

[Lefty]

hey bud..............

remember when you were a baby?

you wore diapers and crawled

bu with practice, practice, practice

you got past that...so practice, practice

practice. I swear on the golden phallus

there is no 'crap' lay when with a beginner.

Few things are more exhilarating for a man

than to bring a partner to the fruition of true

sensuality. Go to a place you are comfortable

with someone you are comfortable with. Tell

them you are a tyro and desire to learn

Damn, wish I was near. Oh, that rapid fire

easy reload mechanism....half the reason it is

that way is so you practice.

Now, drop the training wheels...pedal like hell

dude..the rides just get more and more fun.

 

[looseliam]

It's a bigger deal in your head than what it really is.

I have never thought any more or less of someone based on how quickly he cums.

 

[gwailo]

Listen to Ed (though not too carefully). He's a wise old horse.

 

[SteveyBoyLA]

Afraid of being a crappy lay because you cum too soon? No way! I'd do it with you in a heartbeat. Relax, don't worry about this. It's probably your psychological anxiety that feeds into your PE. As Lefty said: practice, practice, practice.

 

[Seasoned]

I think you'd be a hot bottom. Cum fast and then use it as lube while you get fucked, with a condom, of course.

 

[ChicagoNormalGuy]

How do you do the second time? I always came fairly quickly the first time but then pretty quickly, I was ready for more the second (and third and, one incredible night, fourth and fifth) times and always lasted so much longer.

 

[gwailo]

In one of my last relationships I told the guy I could cum inside him about 2 minutes and he said that would be so hott it would make him cum right away. Which I thought was hot too. Being able to get someone off just like that is super hot to some people and since you can go again right away its like the fun never stops! Lucky you I say!