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Screwed it up with dream guy

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So I've had a crush on this guy for a long fucking time and last night for some reason we started talking and flirting at the club. We ended up going to his place. To my horror though...I couldn't get it up. No matter how much I focused and tried to calm myself down I just couldn't perform. It was so fucking embarrassing. I don't know if I was nervous because it was him or just stressed in general or who the fuck knows.

I don't know what to do now. Do I try to get in touch with him? Do I apologize? Everything was great (in my opinion of course) except the no hard dick part. I would love to take him out to dinner. I'm still reeling from the whole thing and so fucking embarrassed =(. I can't believe that the one time I need to be on my A-game.....
 
Had it ever happened before? or it's the first time?
If he's a good guy he'll understand. Just save your energy for a couple days, and date him again.
 
Meh, it happens. Don't worry about it. Try and put it out of your mind; thinking about it will only make it worse.

Call him and invite him for dinner.
 
Tell him his hottness was making you a little nervous.

He'll probably take it as a compliment.
 
If you treat it like it's no big deal, he'll treat it like it's no big deal. "Looks like I got stage fright. That's fine. What would you like me to do to get YOU off?"

Lex
 
And lex, once again, hits the proverbial nail on its head!
 
still feel like shit. I messaged him on facebook cause I don't have a his number....didn't mention it at all just a quick do you want to go to dinner thing. I wish I could talk to him face to face....sigh... nothing back all day I'm pretty sure he's done with me.
 
^ Naah, don't be so quick to assume the worst.
 
Your brief post leaves much to the imagination. It is part of our animal nature to desire someone who is sexually attractive. The part your brain has to play in this is to sit back and ask yourself what it is that you are seeking.

If it is only the possiblity of a sexual hook-up, your animal nature has to be put in gear and the seduction begins. If both parties are willing it may end on the very first night with the tinsel and firecracker release of the pent up lust. You get off and he gets off!

If, on the other hand, you are genuinely interested in the man as a person and are willing to take the time to get to know him and bond with him in genuine friendship that then becomes more than friendship and you both send out the signals that reveal your feelings you may reach the point where you both want and need sex in order to fully express the bond that has come to exist between you. At that point your body will not let you down and the sex will happen naturally and seem so right.

There is no need to deny that he turns you on; most sensual persons are turned on by hosts of others. But, I sense that what really kept yourcock from cooperating was that other voice which told you that there ought to be more, much more, than sexual coupling.

I would urge you to go for the gold; fantastic sex in a loving and committed relationship. It only gets better with each repetition.
 
wow it got worse...my fault of course.

He hasn't responded at all. I go out tonight, get only a little tipsy, and start chatting with this cute guy I know. I know he knows the first kid, but I don't really know how well. Anyway, we end up going to this guy's place and hooking up. I got hard but didn't last very long at all. It went better overall at least.

As I leave in the morning I realize the place looks really familiar.....I text the guy as I'm leaving and ask him who his roommate is. It's the guy from the first night! They're roommates! And I slept with both of them in the same weekend and it's only a matter of time before they talk about it....wow.

I'm a whore and I really need to tone it down.
 
So what's the big deal? You slept with two guys who live together. I know some guy who would've taken a detour and slept with the second guy on the way out the door from banging the first.

If you want to hook up with either or both of them again, do it.

Lex
 
OMG no! That's awesome! (!)

Do I hear a threesome???

And hey, there's nothing wrong with being a whore. It just means we get laid more that the others :D
 
:lol:

Major oops.

Oh well, it's not the end of the world. Just goes to show what a small world it is--even in cities!

I'm with looseliam, do we smell a 3-some in the offing?!
 
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