Seducing Older Man

[ozguy]

I'm 52 and there's a computer at my place in need of repair .... come on over anytime you like!

 

[lukylok]

If I can be any judge, being over 57, I would think that you have to make the first move, because he probably doesn't dare, fear of being rejected as "too old".

 

[ozguy]

....... I find 99% of the men that age disgusting

So you've found the secret to eternal youth, then?

 

[VICTORIADON]

I find 99% of the men that age disgusting

I thought you were cute but like they say, beauty is only skin deep.

 

[Tommyboy69]

Why can't I meet a guy like you? I would love to be suduced by a hot younger guy!!!

 

[1st love ron]

I think I'm going to break my computer and then call a repairman.

 

[new2pass]

Dude, make the first move! Trust me, he will respond.

 

[playboy2001]

This is slightly off the topic, but...there's been a couple of posts referring older men as "disgusting". I believe there's a thread that started yesterday regarding websites where older men have it off with younger men and it being a turn-off for the thread's poster (coincidentally, the thread was posted soon after the new Jake Cruise entry in JUB's eye candy section went up, however, Jake Crusie's site was never mentioned directly).

But I have to say, that most young men out there aren't exactly bringing a rise on when they look gaunt, sallow and doughy in order to appear younger than they look. Twinks, for example, are just gross looking. Their scrawny appearance which is that comparable to a crack-addicted runaway is just too much of a turn off. To me, that's just as disgusting.

Now, back to the topic...first find out if dude is gay, if you already know, then make the first move...lukylok is correct when saying that old dude wouldn't make the first move outta fear of rejection. Hope it pans out (I thinking it might suck if he rejects you, nevertheless...). Older men are more adventurous and can be quite grateful. However, if you're looking for a fling, let that be known, b/c you might not be able to shake dude off.

 

[Danugh]

The next time you go over to fix his hard drive just show some skin. Guys like that. When you show skin guys think of having sex.

The only problem i should warn you about is that older men tend to be very controlling. So if you are successful in your seduction, let him know upfront that you just want some touchy feeling, but if you get into a relationship be weary.

 

[delta]

That's right. I find 99% of the men that age disgusting, quote]

Your day will come = hopefully!

 

[buzzj]

That's right. I find 99% of the men that age disgusting, quote]

Your day will come = hopefully!

Well said delta!!

Getting older may not be attractive--- but neither is the alternative!

 

[xiandarkthorne]

Actually, guys, I don't think getting older is unappealing. It's letting go of your body and allowing yourself to lose muscle tone that's the problem. As so many of the posters here have said, a hot man is hot at any age and a yukky one is yukky even if he's dewy-skinned. The younger one has the excuse of lack of experience, lack of maturity and all that's missing between the ears with an insufficiency of years. We, as older men, do not. So there's really no excuse for letting ourselves become "disgusting" (to quote a certain young man), is there?

Oh and before any of our chronologically-inadequate members yell at me, I most definitely do not find any of you disgusting. And I'm easygoing (slutty?) enough to bed "yukky" younger guys if they're looking to improve themselves. What I can't stand is when you don't want to exploit your personal potential to the best that you can. It's pathetic and makes me terribly "controlling"....oh dear....there I go again....

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Young or old. Cute or not.

You want something? Let him know that this is the case...

Few people really read other people's minds.

So, show some initiave and you'll see where the buck falls.

SC

 

[twardmo]

That's right. I find 99% of the men that age disgusting, and when I don't, I have to show them that I like them. Then they are usually very eager to do it.

That's HILARIOUS!!!

 

[BrandonSBCA]

Good luck. I wish there were guys older here, but all we have is young Latino gang members. YUCK!

 

[cocktales]

Eternal youth is fleeting to ALL!

I hope that when you reach the 50s +, you will recall making statements NOT very complimentary toward older gay men...

I'm sure this older man is already intrigued by you and NOT just your computer skills....

So, if you start rubbing yourself and get yourself hard and make some statements that you're just a horny young man, etc........I bet this will start the conversation toward the bedroom.......if NOT, then just take the direct approach when he's standing by your shoulder (while you're sitting at the keyboard), and reach over and fondle him..........if that doesn't work, then maybe ALLS lost! lol

Good luck and we expect to be kept informed of your success, later, OK?

 

[BrandonSBCA]

If he kicks you out of the house for playing with his crotch then his computer won't get fixed. Besides is he paying you to help him with the computer. Ask him instead of money I would rather have something else. *Grab his crotch* I feel a story coming on!

 

[Kurn]

Too all you sensitive guys ragging on BT's post.
He said he finds 99% of older guys disgusting.
In Belgium that means the guys that have let themselves go appearance-wise.
They eat too much, they abuse themselves too much, they vegetate too much, and they have built a psychological/moral barrier that in most cases is impenetrable.
On the other hand, there are a few, [1%?] that don't do all-of-the-above. They are or can be quite appealing.
Healthiness is sexiness. That's hard-wired to our brains.

 

[twardmo]

Too all you sensitive guys ragging on BT's post.
He said he finds 99% of older guys disgusting.
In Belgium that means the guys that have let themselves go appearance-wise.
They eat too much, they abuse themselves too much, they vegetate too much, and they have built a psychological/moral barrier that in most cases is impenetrable.
On the other hand, there are a few, [1%?] that don't do all-of-the-above. They are or can be quite appealing.
Healthiness is sexiness. That's hard-wired to our brains.

that is a very good point

 

[Croynan]

That's right. I find 99% of the men that age disgusting, quote]

Your day will come = hopefully!

eM.