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I've read the stickys I didn't see what I was looking for.

I need some sex advice. I don't know if I'm doing something wrong or what.

I've only recently became sexually active and it not what I thought it would feel like

1when a guy is sucking me off can bearly feel anything if I didn't look down I wouldn't have known he was there. But I feel it when he strokes me.

2. I'm having a lot of trouble getting it in. Even after I play with his hole. My finger goes in fine. But my dick can't. My dick is 5 1/12 and it seems to small no matter the position.

Last but not least
3. Once I do get my dick in. I have a hard time telling if it's in. I have to ask the bottom if I'm in. Because I can't feel any difference. Everything I've read says the asshole is very tight. But I can't tell. And once I'm in I cum right away.i or him gets any time to enjoy it. What I. I doing wrong? How can I improve my sex life?
 
Hi Croft85,

Being sucked isn't my thing either, I'm only into anal sex. If you have trouble to get it in, it might be ED but there's some very good solutions for that. Some guys aren't tight so if that's the case it could be that you (almost) don't feel it. There's also some good solutions for prejaculation. Do you use condoms?
 
I don't think it's ED I can stay hard. But when I try to put it in my dick feels like it going bend in half. And no I didn't use a condom. Something I won't even do again.
 
Just confirming- you're not taking any medications like anti-depressants?

Is your question based upon a single incident or has this happened several times?
 
KaraBulut said:
Just confirming- you're not taking any medications like anti-depressants?

Is your question based upon a single incident or has this happened several times?
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It's happened twice the only thing I'm talking is st.johns. I am looking for a doc. But it's hard with out insurance.
 
And I appreciate you guys take time to help me this I don't have any one to talk with. So thank you
 
Croft85 said:
It's happened twice the only thing I'm talking is st.johns. I am looking for a doc. But it's hard with out insurance.
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There are some antidepressants that are known for creating a "detached" feeling where pleasure sensations are diminished, which is why I asked. I'm not familiar with St John's Wort's side effects and a quick Google search gives varying information.

If this happened just a couple of times, it may just be nerves or "stage fright". You might try starting with you laying flat and having your partner straddle you in cowboy or reverse cowboy position. It is easier to maintain an erection in this position, especially if you are used to masturbating in this position. In these positions, your partner may also find it easier to "get it in".

Guys don't tend to talk about these things but over the years of hearing about guys' first times, the two things that I hear most often are:
1. "I felt very unsure of myself and had trouble staying hard"
2. "I was hard as a rock but I couldn't come"

Be patient and keep trying.
 
Croft85 said:
I thought ED was when you can't get hard?
I get hard just fine.
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That is correct- although maintaining the erection is also factored in.

To meet criteria for an ED diagnosis, you would have to demonstrate inability to get an erection and an inability to perform sexually at least 70% of the time.

Given the limited number of times that you've been sexually active, and the rarity of ED in your age group, it's unlikely that you would meet criteria.
 
In my case, it felt hard and it looked hard but just like you, it felt like my dick was going to bend in half wen I tried to put it in, I told my doctor that and my doctor prescribed ED meds. After taking the ED meds I didn't have that problem anymore.
 
Hi again guys,

Last weeks my prejaculation problems got worse, I know there's Priligy but in my opinion it's expensive where I live (+/- ten US$ for one tablet). Do you guys have some advice on this please?
 
There might be prescription assistance programs from the drug company that might help offset the cost.
 
I think I do have ed. I look at a list of my old meds. I was taking depression meds. I figured all side effect would be gone. But now my problem is worse. Now I don't have a sex dive. I have to force myself to get some what hard. Does anyone know of any vitamins let can help? I was go to a low cost doc but they stop seeing me because im gay. So now i don't know what to do.
 
I have no idea about vitamins or medications side effects, but have you considered other aspects? How often do you masturbate? Do you watch porn? How much of it?
Maybe your problem is much simpler than you think. During this lockdown period I've been watching much more porn than before. Sometimes I can't get my dick hard. The best thing to do is stop watching and stop trying to get hard. The problem might solve itself in 1 or 2 days. It sure worked for me.
 
I've been noticing that too I want to jerk off the sex drive is there, but lately it seems like the general doesn't want to salute I think I might need to cool it with the porn maybe take a rest for a few days. Palace Paul thank you for your candor I thought it was just me having that problem!
 
Croft85 said:
I've read the stickys I didn't see what I was looking for.

I need some sex advice. I don't know if I'm doing something wrong or what.

I've only recently became sexually active and it not what I thought it would feel like

1when a guy is sucking me off can bearly feel anything if I didn't look down I wouldn't have known he was there. But I feel it when he strokes me.

2. I'm having a lot of trouble getting it in. Even after I play with his hole. My finger goes in fine. But my dick can't. My dick is 5 1/12 and it seems to small no matter the position.

Last but not least
3. Once I do get my dick in. I have a hard time telling if it's in. I have to ask the bottom if I'm in. Because I can't feel any difference. Everything I've read says the asshole is very tight. But I can't tell. And once I'm in I cum right away.i or him gets any time to enjoy it. What I. I doing wrong? How can I improve my sex life?
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And the other thing is: many guys describe themselves as "tight," so you might be thinking there should be more sensation on your dick. THEY are not as tight as they say they are - in my experience. And I'm not small or even average and I've had the same experience. Some guys only think they're tight, but they're only "tight" if you're very thick and over 8 1/2". It's an illusion they like to believe. If an average sized guy gets in there, he often thinks it's him. Just as frequently? It's not. The other guy has been fucked so much they're loose, except to someone - pardon the pun - larger than (average) Life. If you're not "feeling it" and "feeling them," then they're perhaps, shall we say...overstretched, the way the elastic on underwear does, after years of wearing them.

In this case, it's literally not always about you. Sometimes, it truly is about them.
 
Maybe your dick is so used to your own hand that sex is not as tight or sensitive. Maybe lighten up on your grip? Also, some guys complain of ED from too frequent porn watching and masturbation.
 
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